I can't help but think that this '2021 bride' might feel a little differently is she were a '2020 bride'. I was a '2020 bride' and am now a '2021 bride' but the stress and costs associated with the change has caused a lot of heartache. To me, this is a very one-sided argument. I'm also unsure as to why this person thinks that when we hit 2021, things will automatically be different...I'm already considering postponing my 2021 wedding.