One girl, who I know he only took out once and was a gentleman to her on that date, was described as 'having baggage', 'being married', and another described him as only 'recently separated'. He's been separated for almost 2 years. He never speaks about his ex poorly other than to say they they grew apart. She is a good mother to his kids and they have maintained a good relationship for the sake of their kids.

He's been on one of the dating apps for 3 months and already his reputation is tarnished by angry and vindictive people.

I feel for men who have been on these apps on and off for years. If my friend has issues from 3 months, can one imagine years out there!?! 

It's difficult finding a partner and unnecessary comments and small talk can ruin a good person's chances. 

I realise that some dirt bags need and probably deserve outing, but how many innocent people must be sacrificed to find the one true bad apple. Is it truly worth it? 

I say society is not better off with these facebook groups, but far poorer for them.