This resonated so much with me. A few years ago my strong beautiful talented 14 year old daughter was told by a state basketball coach that she ‘needed to lose a couple of kilos’. I was horrified. My daughter then spiralled and developed an eating disorder and lost her love for a sport that had been her life. To her credit, she fought back and after several years is now playing at a high level again - but that one comment from someone with influence in her life destroyed her for a long period of time. Yes, we need to do better.