@jay these aren’t kids, the eldest are 22 and 20, these are grown men backing up their mothers account of events.
@traceyleighbk1 attacking the mother of your children, choking a child, striking another child and pouring alcohol over them looks like parental alienation? A 20 year old man has made his stance of his father pretty clear.
I find this a little confusing too. She’s cut off contact to her sister for longer than she was even with her ex-husband. I understand this would initially be jarring and a little confusing and uncomfortable, but I really think a good conversation between all parties could have gone a long way here. Everyone is family. And OP has also found love again. I can’t see why all parties couldn’t move forward together.