I’m sorry for this author’s experience. However if this relationship is to progress, the author needs to research BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and have her husband attend DBT (Dialectical Behaviour Therapy). DBT is the only known cure for BPD. She must heal, yes; but so must he. There is no medication that ‘fixes’ BPD. It doesn’t just go away. It takes a LOT of work. Episodes come and go, and for the ‘lucky’ ones, there can be months and years between them. Find out about myths and discrimination around BPD, and how to get support and help for those diagnosed AND their loved ones.