Wow I had no idea how bad it was! I’ve not had one but I’d be afraid to now.
It helps if sex is actually enjoyable. I was with my partner for 10 years and never ‘finished’ even once. So I just avoided it as much as possible. I never faked it, and did my best to communicate but it never improved. But sex was (obviously) not a deal breaker. He’s the only partner I’ve had so I also have nothing else to compare to.
That’s so sad she had to give up something she enjoyed because of the grossly inappropriate behaviour of men :(