@mamamia-user-327613665
Thankyou for sharing your story, this sounds so awful and trapping. From an outsider's perspective who has been in a similar situation, mustered the courage after 2 years of trying to leave, and then met the love of their life within a month, I can hear how much misplaced guilt you're carrying about making the decision to leave when you know it's not healthy or meeting anyones needs.