I’m sorry but this article is so awfully judgemental. You don’t want to get a divorce? Fine. Don’t. But please do not make assumptions about people in a situation you know nothing about. I am divorced and share custody 50/50. Let me be clear - I am NOT a part time mother. I am not cheating my way through motherhood. I am not a dick. I am not living a life of selfish luxury that you characterise in this article. My heart aches whenever I am not with my children. There isn’t a second of my life where I don’t feel guilty or like a failure and reading articles like this from another mother is so utterly heartbreaking. Whatever happened to women supporting women?