@holeinthetoad 100% agree with this comment. I remember almost a decade ago my anaesthetist stopping by to check on me in ED in the evening even though they weren't even working at that hospital that day. I had developed a complication 3 weeks after surgery. Their brief visit made me feel so much safer and cared for, and I still think of how kind for them to do
@laura__palmer No it isn't. It's only harmful if you think there is something inherently right being 'whiter' and wrong being 'darker'.
I myself am not white and I don't think that being curious about what my future kids will look like when mixed with my Latino husbands genes is racist
Absolutely heartbreaking
I can understand this completely. It is painful to let go of a dream, especially of children. I think it will be really unfair if you do not respect your partners wishes with his decision on this. I don't think a child who is not wanted should ever be brought into the world