I am a Latina living in Canada, I knew that cultural differences were a barrier but in this case he used it toxically against me. I was going through a divorce and chatting with several guys (mostly Argentines). I always left my partners and I always said that when it happens to me it would be fatal. One day my friend told me: you have to meet this boy, he is super cute and he is for you. And he was. We connect instantly, especially sexually. He does not have social networks and the time that we used to spend together was always limited by work and children of both, the temporary texts weren't very long and I was comfortable with that because my other relationships were still very sticky and I got bored and left them. He didn't use to talk much, I admit that sex occupied most of our time, But when he finally spoke, it was to be toxic. His daughters live in another province of Canada and he told me "I hope you make the effort to come and see me." And I went. He began to question me that the photos I sent him had been during the day and it was at night, therefore they were not for him. That my divorce was not finished yet and that I could consider cheating on my ex. His daughters knew about me, and he even said about spending Christmas all together (after 2 months). After he stopped mentioning it and when he flew to spend Christmas with his daughters, the texts began to be less. After 3 months, it was the first time we didn't text each other every day. And he told me not to send him photos with my children, to send him only photos of me when he did send me photos with his daughters. He met my friends for Thanksgiving and spoke to his brother on the