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sarahjp April 23, 2024

@kathshelley I think he's shown an admirable level of restraint in his response to this woman's attempted character assassination. I mean, he even offered her her money back for the ticket (something she conveniently left out of all her interviews.) He'd be within his rights to sue for defamation, but has instead chosen the high road. Good on him! 

sarahjp April 23, 2024

@Cait It is not anyone's "human right" to attend a comedy show. It's definitely not anyone's "human right" to flagrantly ignore age restrictions by taking a baby to a show that quite clearly says "ages 15+ only". Arj addresses this in his statement. He also quite clearly says that he couldn't even see that she was breastfeeding, so this woman bringing that up and trying to paint Arj as "anti-breastfeeding" was extremely unfair and bordering on slander. 


I'm curious, do you also consider it a "human right" for a breastfeeding mother to take her 7 month old baby to a nightclub? What about an adult shop that sells X-rated paraphernalia? Like it or not, some places are simply not for babies, and a 15+ comedy show is one of them. This woman's behaviour is beyond entitled and should not be condoned. 

sarahjp April 15, 2024

@lizbette Why can't it be both? Lack of mental health care and violence against women are both huge issues in Australia, and they often overlap with tragic consequences. This doesn't need to be an either/or situation. Also, for the police to come out and publicly say that he was targeting women, they must have some evidence to back that up.

sarahjp March 30, 2024

Princess Anne and her two children, Peter and Zara, are also very close to William and Catherine (and their kids.) They seem like a lovely, close-knit family. It's nice to see MM shining a light on some of the positive aspects of the royal family, and the work they do for the British people. Especially after the horrible month of non-stop gossip and nasty rumours the poor Princess of Wales has had to endure.  

sarahjp March 30, 2024

@mamamia-user-482898552 You're definitely onto something. Numerous studies have shown, over and over again, that single, childless women are happier than married women with kids. Those same studies have shown that the opposite is true for men. As a society, I think we really need to stop and ask ourselves "Why is that?" 


I feel like the women leaving nasty comments mentioned in this article have unfortunately discovered the answer to that question the hard way. Only instead of blaming the regressive, patriarchal society we live in, they choose to take their anger out on those of us who figured it out sooner, and decided to opt out.

As they say: "Don't hate the player. Hate the game."

sarahjp March 30, 2024

@rush this is a good point. I have a feeling the kind of people making such nasty comments would be unhappy no matter what lifestyle they chose. 

sarahjp March 18, 2024

@mamamia-user-482898552 hear hear! The Princess is on medical leave. In literally any other job, no one would be wondering where you are, concocting bizarre conspiracy theories, pestering your family members for information, or demanding ridiculous "proof-of-life" photographs! But because Catherine is a public figure, apparently the press feel entitled to know all her most private, personal medical information. It's sick, and reminds me very much of how Diana was treated in the years leading up to her death. 

sarahjp March 18, 2024

@chrissyinthemiddle the same publications pushing these cruel conspiracy theories now will be falling over themselves 5-10 years from now when Prince George gives his first interview and talks about how horribly his mother was treated while she was recovering from major surgery. Their active role in encouraging the trolling and abuse will be memory-holed, and they'll act like they were against it from the start. 

sarahjp March 18, 2024

@rush because when a celebrity, especially a female celebrity, has a reputation as squeaky-clean as Catherine's, the tabloid media will latch onto literally anything, no matter how ridiculously small and inconsequential, to try and pull her down a few rungs. Tale as old as time. 

sarahjp March 18, 2024

@lisaskeeter or maybe when your mother was Princess Diana, and you saw first hand how the British gutter press treated her, you refuse to play into their hands by opening your mouth about anything. The media wants William to speak out and get angry about the way they've treated his wife these past few weeks. They're goading him on, desperate for something, anything, that they can latch onto and use to sell papers. He's refusing to give them that, and I say, good on him! 

sarahjp March 14, 2024

@nicole23436 it's giving wannabe-GOOP vibes to me. 


Strange thing for a passionate humanitarian like Meghan to be launching in the middle of a worldwide cost of living crisis... 

sarahjp March 14, 2024

@laura__palmer I've always got the impression that many of these women come from reasonably well-off families themselves, so I'm not sure they'd be at risk of homelessness or even unemployment if they were to leave their husbands. They certainly have a very "All will be well, God will provide!" attitude that I've only ever seen among the children of very wealthy parents, who've never had to worry about where their next meal will come from. But that's all the more reason for "regular" mums to NOT aspire to their lifestyle! 

sarahjp March 14, 2024

@laurenella  these "Trad Wife" influencers are most definitely far wealthier than your average SAHM. Even in the US, where houses are cheaper, living the lifestyle they do is NOT something most people can afford on a single income. Their husbands must earn a very good salary behind the scenes, which means that these women probably get a fair bit of outside help. It wouldn't surprise me if most of them have a professional cleaner and gardener come in once a fortnight at least, specifically to take care of all that "dirty work" you mentioned like scrubbing showers or deep-cleaning carpets. Social media isn't real, and it's never been easier to fake a "perfect" life than it is now. All the more reason for young, vulnerable mums to stay far away from the "Trad Wife" accounts!

sarahjp March 13, 2024

@rush I disagree. I think they look very similar. Why, it's almost like they're of the exact same person!! 


(But in all seriousness, this is definitely one of the silliest conspiracy theories I've read lately. I really wish the media would just leave the poor PoW alone!) 

sarahjp March 13, 2024

The case was never that strong to begin with, so I'm not surprised a judge threw it out. While Samantha has undoubtedly been treated poorly by her sister, defamation is notoriously hard to prove in a court of law. I understand how it feels to be betrayed by a family member, so I do have sympathy, but I think the Markles all need to move on and try to find peace in their own lives, now. 

sarahjp March 7, 2024

@mamamia-user-482898552 ugh, don't get me started on 'The Crown'! Too many people treat that show like a documentary, instead of the loosely-based-on-history drama it actually is. (And even if her mother did encourage her relationship with William, so what? By all accounts, they were and still are a couple very much in love with one another. And isn't that what every loving mother wants, for her child to be happy?) 


I think people (both famous and anonymous) attack Catherine because she's an easy target who they know will never publicly defend herself (Never Complain, Never Explain!) It's pretty pathetic, but it says much more about her attackers than her. Ultimately, history will look back on the Princess of Wales as a kind-hearted, dignified woman who loved children and worked hard to bring attention to causes close to her heart, and refused to let the haters get to her. Her trolls will all be long forgotten. 

sarahjp March 7, 2024

@rush I always related to Bobby, with his deeply conservative Christian upbringing and the religious trauma that resulted from it. I wish nothing but the best for him! 

sarahjp March 7, 2024

I never cared much for JVN. They always struck me as quite narcissistic, underneath all of the superficial charm, and now unfortunately it seems my initial instinct was correct. I know they had a hard life in the past, but that's no excuse to treat others poorly. What a shame. 

sarahjp February 29, 2024

@mamamia-user-482898552 I vividly remember paparazzi shouting "S**T!" and "B**CH!" at Kate as she walked out of her home back in 2006, in an attempt to get a reaction from her. Their behaviour was absolutely vile, misogynistic, and disgusting beyond words! Meghan actually benefited from a very different media landscape by the time she started dating Harry in 2016. By that point, tabloids and paparazzi no longer held the power they once did, and aside from one or two tasteless headlines, she was basically left alone. What a short memory some journalists have. 

sarahjp February 14, 2024

@snorks I agree that there are a lot of shady doulas out there, but I interpreted that particular line to mean that a doula personally driving a client to hospital is breaking protocol. Maybe they're meant to call an ambulance, for insurance reasons or something?