Your daughter is so lucky to have you as a Mom! Narcissists dont just manipulate their partners and ex partners, they manipulate their children too. If children don't learn how to set boundaries, they will suffer the consequences. They learn how to do this by example and that's exactly what you're doing for your child. Those who think that simply having someone in their childs' life named "Dad" is going to ensure they have a healthy upbringing, are naive at best.