I contracted genital herpes at 21 when I was a virgin. I'd never had penetrative sex and when I didn't want to 'go all the way', I felt pressured to give and receive oral sex. The boy suffered from cold sores and didn't know he could infect me that way. I was traumatised for years afterwards and articles like these remind me of that burning shame. I hope you are kind to your daughter because it really can happen to anyone, and it's awful.