I love this! Just to add to this - Fat people need to insist on better healthcare! Too frequently doctors will immediately tell you that losing weight will resolve whatever issue you are seeing them for, whether it's an ear ache or a ingrown toenail. Insist on getting tests, insist that they examine you properly and ask how they would treat this issue for a straight sized person.
@gu3st I've gotten around this sort of thing by responding 'I love to hear your sing/your singing brings me so much happiness/your voice brightens my whole day'. Interchange singing with whatever skill your child hasn't quite mastered. No lie is told and no feelings are hurt.
I know I'm missing the point here, but I want to know what happened in the uber...