Is It Normal For My 20-Year-Old To Be Acting Like A Teenager?

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Is It Normal For My 20-Year-Old To Be Acting Like A Teenager?

We hate to break it to you, but the teen-age can last a lot longer than up to age eighteen. That's what a listener has found with their 20-year-old, and wants to know how to manage their mess, backchat and lack of direction, without them necessarily moving out.

Plus, Ginni and Jo have some advice for a parent who is concerned that her son doesn't have any close friends, and explains the benefits of being a 'floater'.


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Hosts: Dr Ginni Mansberg & Jo Lamble

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Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Audio Production: Thom Lion

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