This article was originally published on Ravishly.
The vagina is as magical and beautiful as a unicorn gallivanting through a sea of daisies on a warm spring day. Therefore, the vagina should be treated as a magical and beautiful creature: with care, love and endless devotion.
The big difference between unicorns and vaginas is that unicorns are a myth and vaginas are not. Unfortunately, you will never learn how to ride a unicorn, but you CAN learn your way around the vagina.
And lord knows, some of you need to learn a thing (or 50) about the vagina. You can never have TOO MUCH vagina knowledge, I always say.
Unlike the delightful phallus, vaginas are a bit more complicated in the pleasure department. Oral sex is nearly every woman’s bread and butter. If a guy is offering oral, I’m going to be down and I think most ladies will agree with me.
If you want your lady to come, GO DOWN ON HER.
I cannot stress this enough. If her partner goes down, she’ll probably keep ‘em around.
There are two main things you should consider when venturing downtown: The G-Spot and the clitoris.
Sure, the vagina can seem a little intimidating, but it really is easy AF to understand once you get the hang of it. PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT, my friends.
I’ve got some cunnilingus tips for beginners, hot off the press. But let’s face it: about 98% of us need to read this article.
This is Cunnilingus 101: your ultimate guide to going down on women.
1. Some women are into different things: ASK.
When it comes to oral sex, different women will enjoy different things. Some women want a lot of pressure, some do not. One woman may want a finger in her butt, another woman will NOT want that. Some women may be interested in G-Spot stimulation, but others may exclusively enjoy oral clit stimulation.
The way you find out what someone wants is by ASKING. Ask her what makes her feel good. Don’t be shy. Trust me, she will be really impressed that you care so much about making her come.
If she is making sounds of pleasure, that’s a good sign. If she seems to like one thing over another, do whatever that is and don’t stop.
THE CLIT IS FOREVER.
The clit is the beacon of female sexual pleasure. Literally, it’s only function is pleasure.
KEEP YOUR TONGUE ON THE CLIT. This is your SAFE SPACE. The clit is the bud-like bump at the top of the vaginal hood, it extends below the pube bone, but the bud is the visible portion.
STAY on the clit. Whether or not your lady is into G-Spot stimulation, she WILL want clitoral stimulation. I repeat: YOU STAY ON THE CLIT UNTIL SHE COMES.