Just before Christmas last year, Australian cricketer Nathan Lyon was pictured with another woman while – at least publicly – he was married with two children.
Now, his former wife Mel Waring has started a blog called Life of Lyons, detailing her new life as a single mum to Harper and Milla.
This is a recent post from her blog.
I wasn’t sure what being really alone would feel like, being shut out from him. Since saying goodbye it hadn’t really hit me. We have lived a life where he has constantly travelled, cricket was life and touring was a given. Daddy’s at cricket, it’s easy to forget. Today has been different, I have been strong, I have been brave but today I feel weak, I feel small and I feel alone.
There are words that ring in my ear, that the girls and I don’t need to worry about anything and that they will always come first. These words should give comfort in something so painful yet that’s far from how life is feeling for us right now.
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"I’m constantly reminded that the team of people who were once there for us both are no longer my friends but my enemy. The words trust no one, have become true and I’m reminded that while he has a team of people around him, protecting him, making life for him easy, I do not."
Said "team" refers to the cricket team with which her ex plays, yes? This is a really weird perception. Those are his workmates. Even though they may be united at work (ie all pitching in together to win a match), it's a bit of a stretch to suggest the whole team is invested or even interested in each other's relationships, to the point that they care enough to draw sides. I have a real job (ie one that doesn't involve sport), and I don't give a crap about whether my workmates are cheating on their partners, who they are going out with, what's going on in their relationships - and I don't want to know. The writer appears to be mixing up the role of workmates, and the role of friends. I daresay she is not without the latter.
I think this may refer to more than other cricketers. He has PR agents, managers and support staff. They were once, no doubt, there for her too as part of the package. Now, they focus on his wellbeing while she, gets tossed to the curb. Not only that but the support of the WAGS are to their husbands and their loyality is possibly no longer with her. I feel for her and hope she finds her feet and lives well without such a sod!!
Again, the accoutrements of work (PR staff, managers etc etc) are still just workmates. My point is that it's a bit of a stretch to be claiming the ex has all the support and she doesn't. Are we to assume she's without a friend in the world?
Exactly - his PR staff, manager and support staff are there for him because he's the player, the worker, the earner, not her. Their relationship has nothing to do with them, other than she was friendly with the other players' partners. Relationships sadly break down - you can't make somebody love you. Move on with some dignity and stop putting your personal life out there - it's getting rather ridiculous.
certainly not trained people who professionally deal with such a public fallout. Hopefully she has some good family around her to pick up the pieces he left behind!