By KEVIN COTTER
One year ago, my book, 101 Uses For My Ex-Wife’s Wedding Dress, was published. It is a combination of photographs of odd uses for a wedding dress and my story of getting through a really challenging time in my life.
I got the idea to start a blog when I inherited my ex-wife’s wedding dress after she moved out over three years ago.
I encouraged her not to leave the dress with me, but she refused, telling me to do whatever I wanted with it. Fortunately I could count on my family to find humor in a challenging situation, so when I told them I had the dress and asked them what I should do with it, they gave me offbeat answers. It was quickly suggested that the dress would make a lovely doormat and my brother thought I should wipe my a** with it.
I couldn’t help but crack up at the thought of the dress I inherited being used in those ways — or to wash my car or cover my grill. We brainstormed potential wedding dress applications and wrote them down. And we laughed — something I hadn’t been doing much at that time.
I am still amazed at what the dress was capable of. Once we started putting it to use, the potential applications grew as we discovered how strong it was. The dress held up as a hammock, a tow rope, a jump rope, and a toy for playing tug-o-war with my brother’s dog. This dress was made to last, even if my marriage wasn’t.