As I sat waiting for my flight at the airport last night, I scrolled through my phone to find a nice photo of Mum and I.
It was Mother’s Day and like everyone else on my social media feed, I wanted to share a picture and a message to her.
We hadn’t taken one that day – we’d been too busy eating and catching up – so I eventually settled on one from a family day out earlier this year.
Picture selected, I went about the caption. How do I put into words what she means to me? How do I sum up the brilliant day we'd shared, and everything she's done and taught me?
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I chose not to post because i can only think of the ladies who would love to be mums but can't have kids. That breaks my heart. I know many women in that position ☹️
I don't post on Mothers or Father's Day because I know that it's a horrendously painful time for my friends who have lost their parents young in life. Normally my attitude towards FB is "if you don't like it, keep scrolling" but this is one thing I think they should not have shoved in their faces.
That, and Mum/Dad want those words said to them in person, and not just one day a year! Some of these posts remind me of obituaries, the ones where you can't help but wonder if the writer took the time to tell the deceased how much they loved them when they were actually here to hear it.