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The typical Australian migrant was born in England and is 44.
My name is Holly Wainwright. I was born in England and I am 44.
Yesterday, the first data drop from the Australian Census proved what I already knew – I am deeply, deeply average.
I came to Australia when I was 23, with a backpack full of ’90s fashion that I now see all around me and a vague plan to travel around the place for, you know, a year.
I never left.
That makes it sound easy. It wasn’t easy. What those who talk about Australia being “flooded” don’t know or say is that immigrating to Australia is incredibly difficult, complicated and expensive.
I fell in love with Australia on about day 23. It's a terrible cliche but there is no other phrase to describe it. It started as lust, became an infatuation and grew into the relationship that defined my adult life. Being here. Not being there. The distance. The leaving.
Once I knew this thing Australia and I had wasn't a fling, it took me seven years to be granted permission to live here. Bridging Visa after Bridging Visa. Tying myself to things that might let me stay - a destructive relationship, a job I had long outgrown. Lawyers, lawyers, lawyers. All just to get that stamp in my passport.
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Great piece, Holly. I, too, came here for a year at age 25 (from Canada) and 15+ years/3 visas later, I'm still here. One key difference to my experience: I sound 'white' (i.e. neutral, English - Canadian accent) but look South-Asian. I feel that society's perception of me as an immigrant has shifted significantly since I first arrived. Fascinating sociological observations to be made of this :-)
Thank you Holly. I've followed a similar path to you - originally from the UK and now an Australian citizen in my 40s.
I came here the first time on a working holiday visa, taking a gap year before university. Then I came back for 6 weeks after university. Then I went home, qualified in my chosen profession and came back on an international secondment for 2 years. Those two years ended 15 years ago, and I'm still here!!
I fully acknowledge this was a conscious deliberate choice. I love this country and the lifestyle it offers. I too had to jump through hoops of visas, then PR, then citizenship.
But the amount of conversations I've had with people complaining that "the bulk of asylum seekers aren't even refugees, they're economic migrants".
My retort is "But *I'm* an economic migrant".
The usual answer then is "But you're different".
It infuriates me.