In her 42-year career, Midwife Cath has delivered over 10,000 including the children of Tiffany Hall and Bec Judd.
Despite this, she still gets criticisms over the techniques she chooses to teach new parents, and in this case it’s related to feeding babies to send them to sleep, and occasionally using formula when the baby is unable to be breastfed.
Posting a photo quote on Instagram, she explained that a fellow midwife critiqued her “appalling” use of bottle feeding.
Cath responded in an Instagram caption: “This is the bullsh*t that I’m sent by faceless people.
“My crime – I encourage new mums to be happy and enjoy their new babies, to feel proud to be a mum , to feed their babies a bottle of formula if they are hungry and I encourage their partners to be involved in the bath time routine.”
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The health and well-being of baby and mother are paramount. A mother can’t produce breastmilk if she is tired and distressed, if baby doesn’t get enough to eat they can be restless at best and suffer brain damage at worst. Each mother should be supported on her own circumstances - most mothers do a mixture of breastfeeding and bottle, and even if you supplement with bottle as breastmilk is a supply/demand thing it is possible to build your supply up after bottlefeeding/mixed feeding to solely breastfeed - but you need support and advice based on your own circumstances and physiology. Surely we all know that a healthy and well mother and baby and family is best.
Besides, I always tell my new Mum friends who are anxious that no one knows if you are bottle/breast or Caesar/vaginal. It’s not as if people will look at a child and “know” or ask you in a job interview when you are an adult!
I think I’ve mentioned this before here, but both my brothers and I were formula babies. You know when we found out? Four years ago, when my SIL was having trouble breastfeeding my nephew. It has had zero impact in our lives. Ladies, do what works for you and your baby.
Well clearly *that* explains it all Rush! Yes, agree - whatever gets you through the day and night....no one can fault you for doing what is best for you and your baby.
I supplemented with formula for the first two weeks as my baby wasn't latching and I was having trouble pumping enough milk. This meant my husband was able to do night feeds so I could just pump and then go back to sleep. I truly believe that having that sleep allowed me to be calmer and recover quicker which helped with latching and milk production. I was then able to BF exclusively until my baby started solids.
I did mixed and pumped until I established enough supply and babies were big enough to latch with my twins. Third baby was a breeze but I was exhausted so wrapped it up at 8 months for the bottle. Luckily, I never really felt any pressure either way, looking back, any pressure was that I put on myself.
When I did midwifery (in the 1970s), we were taught to support those new mums who decided to bottle feed and without judgement. I remember one old midwife telling me that 'S26 was the next best thing to breast milk'. The pressure to be a 'perfect mum' these days is horrendous and very unfair to those just trying to raise their banies as best as they can.