People who hide habits or parts of their personality from their partner often do so out of a fear of being judged or losing love. Sometimes, if they own up, they do risk ruining their relationships, however being real about who we are can also force us to face the fallacies of our own assumptions.
Take, for instance, the call I received some months ago from a woman who lives in a large country town. Her husband is a shift worker and one afternoon she arrived home unexpectedly to discover him dressed in women’s clothes, wearing a wig and make-up. She was devastated because they have been married for several years and she was totally unaware of his habit.
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My husband is a cross dresser. He told me about the panties when we began and I was ok with it. It has incremented so much that he wears panties, bras, tops and dresses. It’s hard because he pushes it for sex as well. I feel he is not meeting me anywhere close to the middle. I don’t think it makes him less of a man, nor do I think he is gay. But it turns me off on the spot and he just gets hurt when I bring it up and doesn’t ask about what it’s like for me. He says it’s not sexual, but then why can’t he try to meet me halfway? Is there something I am missing? It doesn’t help he is always horney and wants to jump my bones every day. I