She stepped back in time to see if she could be her mum’s best friend.
Danielle Delph had always wondered if she and her mother would be best friends if they had grown up together, so when she photoshopped herself into her mum’s vintage photos, she convinced herself that they’d have been great friends at the same age.
Danielle told TODAY.com she got the idea for her “If I Had Known My Mother Back Then” project while she was scrolling through photos on Instagram and found a vintage photo of someone’s mother. It made her think of her mother, Janis Thomas.
“I think it’s one of those ideas that people have at any point in life,” she said. “You grow up and you say, ‘Oh, I wonder if my mum would have thought that was fun,’ or ‘What was she like when she was my age? What would she have done?’”
The project took about six months to complete, partly because photos were being mailed one batch at a time from her mother’s home.
“I just kind of went through and found moments when we were acting similarly, or we were interacting or making eye contact, or at a similar event,” Danielle said.
Imagining how she and her mum would interact on Christmas morning, Danielle said she could picture the two of them playing. According to her, “That napkin is actually part of my mum’s photo, and in my photo, I’m actually drawing, so it looks like I’m drawing on her napkin.”