This post deals with child sexual abuse and suicide and might be triggering for some readers.

René Michele's earliest memories are pretty sketchy until the age of 10, when she can zero in on a particular event with such clear focus she can replay her inner monologue verbatim.

"If I just pretend I am asleep, surely he will leave me alone. It's an adult thing he's trying to do... he will realise I am not an adult if I am asleep. This isn't something you do until you're fully grown. He will realise..."

The now 44-year-old can remember everything about the strange man in her room, her Tweety Bird pyjamas, the sensation of pain, and being frozen with fear.

Watch: René talks about how the abuse began.

He wouldn't be the last man to molest a young René in her bedroom either - she'd go on to be sexually abused and raped by six different men between the ages of 10 and 13 alone and it would continue until she was 16.

All of the men were invited into the family home by the person she trusted the most.

When she was 10, René's parents broke up and her mother - who was completely unable to cope - started bringing strange men she'd met at the pub back to the house.

It was a revolving door of men who preyed on René's vulnerability. While her mother was drunk or out of the house, the men would abuse her.

"She would bring men home and go to work the next day, but they would still be in the house. So they would then come into my bedroom," René tellsMamamia.

Sometimes they'd sneak into her bedroom to molest her during the night, pass out drunk, before waking and sneaking out again.

"I would disassociate... I would go to my happy place and just shut down. We know about the fight or flight reaction.... I always froze."

The first time Rene tried to take her own life she was 10. At 17, she tried again.

Her life continued to spiral, a web of drugs, alcohol, and abuse, leaving her with absolutely no sense of self worth. Her abusers had made sure of that.

"They'd say things like 'if you say something, you're a naughty girl. What do you think your mum's gonna think? You're disgusting. You're an idiot, you're stupid.'"

"So you take that on as your identity and that becomes your mirror reflection," René tellsMamamia. "When you look in the mirror, you no longer see you, you just see the words spoken over you."

By the time she got to high school, she'd gone from being a bright, bubbly kid to being introverted, shy and insecure.

"I would lose control of my bladder in the classroom if there was a loud noise. Your nervous system absorbs trauma so all of a sudden my body was just acting on its own. I was bullied terribly at school," she says.

None of the teachers thought to check on why René might have been acting out, or skipping class, or always needing to go to the bathroom.

"People just think you're a naughty kid. But nobody asks 'what's going on?' Nobody pays any attention. You're penalised rather than helped, and that's still what happens today."

After a third suicide attempt at 19, René decided she had to turn her life around.

But it wasn't going to happen overnight.

René would continue to fall into the wrong crowds. Eventually she married a narcissist who unfortunately became the first person she opened up to about her trauma. He'd "physically recoil" when she'd tell him about her abuse, she tellsMamamia.

"He would say to me, 'you've been abused so many times since you were 10... Why did it keep happening? Maybe you liked it?' And that sort of anguish was harder, I felt, then any of the abuse that I'd been through, because this man was supposed to love me," she says.

It wasn't until she was 26 and gave birth to her daughter, that René opened up a phone book and found the details of a local Sunday church service, a decision that would shift her world forever.

"I confided in some pastors there and they really were the people that helped me get on my feet. One of the pastors looked at m