“My marriage lasted 14 years, five of which were sexless.”
Has your marriage cooled off to the point of you having hallway sex – that is, when you pass each other in the hallway and utter Fuck You?
When your eyes lock on his face, do you question your sanity, thinking, “What did I ever see in him?” There’s so much animosity built up between you and your husband that you swear at each other when you pass in the hallway.
Do you sleep on the far edges of the bed facing the wall or in separate bedrooms?
Those of you nodding your heads know how miserable the situation is. My marriage lasted 14 years, five of which were sexless. There are many reasons a marriage can become sexless. Some of which are:
He would rather watch TV than spend time cuddling. You walk through the room naked and he doesn’t notice because he’s watching his favourite show, football or even wrestling. Really??? How insulting is that… he’s watching wrestling… a fake sport? Maybe you get sick of being ignored and become addicted to chatting online to make up for your loneliness. Been there done that. I speak from experience. It gets worse. Read on.
He has a wandering eye at first. Eventually this leads to an affair. Maybe it's with a stranger or even with someone you know, like your friend. You trust her and vent about your husband to her. Little do you know she's already jammed the butcher knife into your back.
She's using the info she gets from you to land your man in her bed. She keeps him so drained of energy that he's fine with hallway sex at home. Besides it's Monday, wrestling is on and there's lots of people to chat with online.
You've been married long enough to know he's addicted to pornography. Not just nudie magazines and XXX DVDs. Not once, but TWICE, he's run up a $500 phone bill calling 1800 sex lines that are advertised in the dirty magazines. He's also joined several dating websites. The humiliation of his affairs and sexual addictions make you feel worthless.
"Am I too fat? Does he think I'm ugly? Why doesn't he love me? What did I do wrong?" All questions you might ask yourself. I know I did.