When Paul Servat met Barbara Bienvenue through an online dating site, he thought it was love.
So when she announced she was pregnant one month into their relationship, he was thrilled.
The couple happily told family and friends the wonderful news – they were expecting twins.
However, several weeks later Barbara told Paul that it was actually triplets, then she said it was quadruplets.
And strangely then the story changed to quintuplets after she announced that on her last ultrasound they found one more baby.
They set up a Facebook page so friends and family could donate clothing and baby goods.
The whole town of Saint-Jean-sur-Richelieu in Quebec was excited for them, with front-page articles appearing in the local paper and the community rallying around the unusual pregnancy.
Photos of the donations which poured in appeared on their Facebook page. A range of beautiful baby beanies and home-made knitted blankets. Their nursery set up at home with five bassinets was ready and waiting for the new babies to come home.
But when Barbara was at 34 weeks, things took a turn you could never have imagined.
Paul took Barbara to hospital, expecting his partner to give birth. That’s when he was taken aside by a nurse.
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100 staff and the best you can offer is a story a year old. I rarely come here now and this is why.
How do you not go to any Dr. Appointment it was irresponsible of him. If he would had mad sure to at least make time for one earlier he would had realized she was taking it sooner. With a multiple pregnancy Five babies you make time and go. In a real pregnancy so many complications can arrise . It's the partners responsibility to listen to the Dr so at least he can be informed and help.Even if she would had said no ,it was his job to say nope I am gonna be thier too. Why not?
She probably would have scammed the appointment schedule as well. Picture it... hubby prob went on a biz trip or had an important day at work. ... "oh honey Dr BigLiyarrrr called and reminded me the appt was today so i went to see him, oh I'm so sorry I must have got the date wrong but everything is going great!!" Etc etc. The narcissist will not back down and will not be defeated - she had everyone fooled (well mostly) but they do often slip up. The rare empaths will catch it and start to question things. The apaths will be swinging alongside the abuser like a fan club.. but have no idea its abuse. They're pretty amazing at their craft! I bet u know a few ppl with npd (and/or associated illnesses) but u may not know it 😯 btw. This father-to-be was a first time dad. He wasn't to know the process. She would have bamboozled the poor guy!!!! Who knows.. she could have been completely psycho and threatened him in many ways, she could have been screaming at him every day, or done the passive aggressive, or may have forced him to work 2 or 3 jobs for more $$ so he didn't have time to think or be human!! Have u ever heard of the 'Abuse Wheel' I think it's called. Terrifying. Look it up..... uggghhhh so so sad but so real x
My husband didn't attend any of my doctors appointments, he was at WORK!! He didn't get to any of my scans either, guess what he was at WORK!! Most of my appointments were just before I started work or even in lunch hours - we couldn't coordinate because we couldn't! I'm not defending this woman but seriously sometimes it's just not possible or logical for everyone to do what you say should happen.