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'How lining up at the supermarket ended my relationship.'

There are some relationships that can’t survive a holiday away, some that falter under the weight of bad news and then there was mine, ruined by a Coles line.

It all started in the egg aisle.

I was determined to buy a carton of free-range but every box had at least one cracked. I was four cartons deep when my girlfriend of ten days, two hours and four aisles snapped.

“It doesn’t matter,” she said. “They taste the same.”

I said nothing and reached for another carton. I learned long ago the worst fights start over the stupidest things. I was determined to avoid it. I checked the eggs for cracks. None. Perfect.

I looked up and saw she was already power-walking towards the registers. I took a deep breath and followed.

A good egg is hard to find. (Source; iStock.)

As she walked, she clucked her tongue in annoyance. It was like following a child with a skipping rope.

Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.

The sight of that register line still remains firmly burnt into my brain. It's up there with my formal, my graduation and moving out of home. It was two customers wide and about forty deep. It curled out from the registers and ended in the milk and cheese section.


I soon learned a mechanical fault had rendered every digital register to fail. An employee was performing sales with a calculator and a look of deep stress.

One employee. One register. One line.

"CASH ONLY!" Another employee yelled. The supermarket bristled with tension.

"Cash only?" Shoppers began muttering behind us.

"Cash, only?"

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And then, in what can only be described as a tidal wave of shoes, ten aisles of shoppers became one line. I launched myself forward but was stopped.

"Wait," my girlfriend said.

I watched in horror as little old ladies began lining up with tartan hand-trolleys. And then, in what remains the single most humiliating experience of my public life, she walked to the front of the line.

A man with a gurgling child in the back of his trolley looked up.

"We have one item," she told him.

No. I thought to myself. No. She couldn't possibly.

I looked at the eggs in my hands in horror. I looked back up. The child was reaching for magazines. The father was reaching my conclusion.

I was part of this. I seemed complicit. I was holding the item.


"Oh..." he said.

I looked down the line and forty angry faces looked back. A woman with four children shouted out: "What's going on?"

"Babe, no... we can't," I said.

"We can!"

We were now performing a two-man play for the residents of Melbourne's northern suburbs.

"No. I really -"

"It's okay. It's one item," said the father. He motioned for me to go ahead.

It was sort of like this but add ten years, a child and a Carlton football jersey. (Source: Comedy Central.)

"No, but thank you..." I said.

"No cutting! Get to the back!" The woman from earlier shouted. Other shoppers began to jostle and jeer.

"Shut UP! It's ONE item," my girlfriend spat. I looked at my girlfriend. I looked at the mother.

I placed the eggs on the unused register belt beside us and walked out. A small cheer erupted from the crowd behind me.

There were 15 missed calls on my phone that night and thirty messages. I deleted them.

The only message I kept was from Facebook. It wanted to let me know my relationship status had changed from 'in a relationship' to 'single'. I didn't mind.

If anything, it taught me that eggs, like new partners, should always be checked for cracks.

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