A few years ago, I was at a restaurant enjoying a glass of wine with my fiancé when he received a call from his dad. His mum had tripped down the front steps and broken her leg. It was a small moment in time that had a huge impact on her life. She missed the holiday which she had been packing the car for, she was forced to stop going for her evening walk with friends (which was as much for mental fitness as it was for physical) and as a result she gained weight and her overall health deteriorated.

She wasn’t even 60.

Prior to this, I had associated bone breakage with two groups of people – overzealous children on the monkey bars or frail, elderly people who were unsteady on their feet. Certainly not my seemingly fit and healthy mother-in-law.

Now, I’ve never been one to be enormously engaged in nutrition and health. I love the outdoors and eat a balanced diet but I have never paid too much attention to the nutritional content of it however recently, I visited my parents-in-laws’ and walking down those steps, I stumbled and realised that I’d almost repeated history.

Later that week, my nan who was on holidays with my parents, had a fall. This wasn’t unusual – she’s been growing less steady on her feet – but sadly, this time she broke her hip. Through her recovery I’m seeing my nan lose some of her independence and so too my mum and aunty as they move more actively into roles as supporters and carers.

It’s also brought me closer to understanding the importance of strong foundations in my bones and has prompted me to make some changes.

What is weight-bearing exercise? I had a Google, and it's easier than you think. Image: Unsplash/Filip Mroz

I’m not in the position to makehugelife changes - I have two small children, commute three hours for work each day and like most of the people my age, am exhausted just thinking about opening a can of baked beans, let alone making wholly nutritious meals every night! But, I have been able to bring more awareness into my day to day, that is serving as a preventative measure for my bones deteriorating as I get older.

I googled 'strong bones' and found the healthybones.com.au

1. Increase daily serves of calcium. One of the easiest ways is through milk, cheese or yoghurt - two and a half to four serves a day is the recommended amount depending on your age and gender;

2. Regular physical activity, especially weight-bearing exercise. This includes walking, jogging, running, skipping, jumping, dancing, gymnastics, netball, basketball, football, soccer and lifting weights;

3. Spend time outdoors to get more vitamin D, while of course being sun safe.

Here's what I'm trying to do more of:

1. Snackingwithmy kids.

It’s a bit ridiculous but I have been way more engaged in what I’m feeding my kids, than what I am feeding myself. I make sure they have a balance of fruits, vegetables, dairy, nuts and carbs in their snacks but when it comes to myself, I reach for whatever is closest (or hide in the pantry and stuff down three bits of chocolate hoping that the kids don’t catch me). So now, when I am preparing their snacks, I prepare mine too.

Seeing all of those little zip lock bags and tupperware containers lined up ready to go, makes me feel like mum of the year and now that I’ve double the volume by making snacks for myself I feel like even more of a winner.

2. Eating more protein-rich, calcium-rich foods.

If my husband has a complaint about how we eat, it’s that we don’t eat enough protein. It’s because I don’t love that feeling of being too full and I always feel exhausted after a meal heavy with protein but we’ve found a compromise.

We now supplement heavier proteins like meat, with protein-rich foods like cheese, which I find easier to portion control. So we’ll make a pesto pasta dish (packed with calcium-rich parmesan) and he’ll add meat but I’ll add feta. That way everyone is happy and I feel like we're all giving our bodies more of what they need.

As far as helping my bone health in the long term, dairy foods are one of the richest dietary sources of calcium. So cheese in our pasta it is!

I'm all about the no-fuss, small and easy swaps. Image: Getty.

3. Getting out in the sun.

I had no idea prior to looking into bone strength that Vitamin D is essential for strong bones as it aids with calcium absorption. The best source of Vitamin D is the sun. This realisation coincided with the onset of spring and my colleagues asking me why I never left my desk for lunch.

So now (I still don’t leave my desk for lunch - no big changes remember?), I walk to meetings that are less than 15 minutes away or say ‘yes’ when I’m invited to eat lunch in the park (sunscreen on if it's a longer time in the sun, of course).

The other thing I’ve done is have this conversation with my mum. Like my mother-in-law, mum is healthy, eats a well-balanced diet and is much fitter than me but the realisation that something which can have such a major life impact is actually preventable, has made me want to make some little changes to my lifestyle habits and bring others along the ride with me.

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