So I will just eat everything in my house, and then I will be really good starting tomorrow…
It’s that time of year when everyone is obsessed with not eating too much food. Or trying not to.
It’s like a cultural rite of passage: Will you complain about how much food you’re eating this holiday? Will you discuss how bad you’ve been and how you plan on repenting come January 1st?
It’s in the air. There is too much food around! None of us have any control! We are all the worst! Take this pie out of my hand! Lock me in a room with lettuce! …BUT EGGNOG!
Welcome to the Annual Month-and-a-Half-Long Holiday Binge.
Joey knows what we’re talking about…
In order to get to the bottom of this phenomenon and find out how to stop the annual holiday binge, let’s talk a little bit about binge mentality.
Binges happen under restriction.
People who binge on food are also the people who have a lot of guilt and stress around food. Contrary to what you might think, the guilt and stress are actually the things causing the bingeing, not the other way around. These are the chronic dieters, the people who feel constant guilt or judgment over the foods they eat. Their entire life feels like a diet, which is extremely mentally and physically stressful, so the body and brain react by having them systematically lose control over food: bingeing.
Almost all binges come along with this sentiment: oh well, I’ve messed up now. So I will just eat everything in my house and then I will be really good starting tomorrow.
We binge because we restrict. I know that seems like an oversimplification, but I promise it is true. I have worked with hundreds of women, and bingeing always comes back to feelings of restriction. Notice I said feelings, not just actual restriction. The important thing to realize is that the emotional aspect of this is just as powerful as any physical aspect of restriction.