By NICKY CHAMP
Put the kettle on, pour a cup of whatever takes your fancy and let’s get started with the weekly exhale that is best and worst. If you haven’t come across this weekly post before it’s where we reveal the high and lows of the week that was. Think of it as your free group therapy.
I’ll go first.
BEST: Some avid Mamamia readers might have seen my post last week about my wheels falling off. WELL, this week my FIFO husband flew back in and it’s my best this week because it was so lovely to operate as a family unit again. Even though I have been quickly forgotten as my husband is definitely the apple of my daughter’s eye.
WORST: This technically didn’t happen this week but I can’t stop thinking about it. And I haven’t worked out what I can do about it just yet but maybe by talking about it I can help someone.
When I was waiting in the emergency department of the children’s ward last week there were two teenagers that were admitted for attempting to commit suicide within half an hour of each other. The 16-year-old male was known to the staff as he had attempted to commit suicide a couple of days before and the 14-year-old girl was brought in by her mother. I wanted to reach out to them and tell them it gets better. I wanted to hug the mother. I wanted to know where the boy’s parents were.
Although I was there with my sick daughter, my situation paled in significance. I immediately fast-forwarded my life and put myself in the shoes of the parents and I just couldn’t imagine what it would be like to have a child who didn’t want to live. I urge everyone to talk to the teenagers in their lives, ask them how they are, what they’re excited about, where they’re at in life. The Kids Helpline has some great resources on teen suicide and talking to adolescents about depression, you can visit their website here.
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Top Comments
Hi everyone!
Hope you had a great week!!
Worst: Baby shower invite arrived.... I am officially the last person in the group who doesn't have a baby..... and I am officially the person who gets the pity looks.
Best: My pneumonia is clearing!!
Don't worry about the baby just yet, Fireworks. You have to get healthy first! How's your mission going?
Hi Mimi,
My mission is going well. Despite having pneumonia, I have maintained healthy eating and lost 1kg this week. I know it doesn't seem like much when I have 60+ to lose, but considering I wasn't feeling wonderful this week, I was really proud of myself this week!
Best: I got the job at the local supermarket :D I told my current boss and she was devastated which made me feel worse but then asked me to stay on as casual so if anyone is sick or goes on holidays I might be able to fill in for a couple of days :D It makes the move to the new job a lot easier but I'm wondering how I'll go juggling 3 jobs :S I guess I'll wait and see and then drop one if I have to.
Best 2: After having a massive heart attack last Thursday my grandma got out of hospital the following Monday and is doing so well. Can't wait to see her next weekend and bring her home to her house :)
Worst: After reading Nina's post I don't have a worst at all, nothing can compare to that. So sorry for your loss Nina, it would be heartbreaking. No amount of words will help but just know there are a lot of us here at MM thinking of you and feeling for you xx Also sending positive thoughts and good vibes to smudgesicle, again I can't imagine what I would do being diagnosed with cancer so young but there are plenty of us here offering support and sending the biggest get well vibes your way xx