This dad was tired of people asking him inappropriate questions about his adopted daughter. So he did this.
A new video illustrates the correct etiquette to display when asking about an adopted child. This dad’s golden rule is – if you wouldn’t say it about a boob job, don’t say it about an adoptive family.
Simple words to live by? Or just a silly joke?
Well the post was created by an American couple with three children, two biological and one adoptive, who’ve been asked a serious of awkward questions over the years about their adopted child.
Jesse Butterworth (the star of this video) concedes that the people who ask inappropriate things probably don’t mean to be rude. They just don’t know how to frame their questions in an acceptable way.
It’s starts out as a public service announcement:.
One side of the frame shows an inappropriate question being posed to someone who's had a boob job. And on the other side, the same question's being asked to the parents of an adopted child.
The first one:
Boob Job: Are those real?
Adoption: Are that your REAL child?
Jesse's response: Yes she is real, she is not a unicorn. The questions you are looking for: Is she your biological daughter?