As parents, we all know that smacking is a big no-no – yet occasionally, we're pushed to the limit. Here's how you can encourage good behaviour with positive discipline. Cue happier parents and happier child…
Do you smack your children? Were you smacked as a child?
About to blow your lid?
Smacking is rarely a planned, thought-out response. We lash out when we're seeing red - then feel dreadful afterwards.
'I didn't mean it, Mummy...'
So often, we fall into a telling-off cycle, becoming increasingly frustrated as a child's small (often unintended) misdemeanour
Positive vibes
According to a study conducted by the Cadet Forces, one in four parents doesn't discipline their child for fear of appearing too strict.
Stickers and treats
Some parents find reward systems such as sticker charts incredibly helpful.
Do as I do...
We teach our children to be polite, and treat others with respect - then find ourselves yelling when a partner's annoyed us.
Time to talk
When you need to raise an issue with your child, try to talk calmly without shouting.
'That's not fair...'
Occasionally, you may feel that withholding privileges is the best move.
'No friends over - ever!'
When you're boiling with rage, it's easy to get carried away with ridiculous threats, yelling, 'That's it!
Ready to snap
If you find yourself annoyed by every little thing your child does, and are raising your voice far more than you'd like, then consider if it's partly
Kiss and make up
While flare-ups are a normal part of family life, it's important to move on when an issue's been dealt with.
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