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I regularly refer to myself as being extremely mediocre.
It’s what I strive to be in life and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. I used to aim to be extraordinary, working hard to go above and beyond in everything I do. Having this goal made me burnout quickly.
So, I opted for the wonderful and often overlooked level of mediocrity.
However, I soon realised that no matter what level of accomplishment I aim for, whether that be below average, overachiever or extremely mediocre, I automatically improve myself in areas where I know other people would take notice.
Of course, I only became self-aware of this trait of mine when I was scrolling through TikTok and I came across this video that talks about the four tendency types people fall into when it comes to meeting expectations.
So before you roll your eyes at the next part, just know that getting into these everyday habits were a huge deal and were actually quite difficult. Looking after yourself is WORK (which I've only just realised).
I’ve been working on meeting my inner expectations for a few weeks now. Sticking to my brand of mediocrity, none of these will make you go "wow", in fact, if anything it'll make you go "you're 25 and you're only JUST doing these things?!" It's fine, I'm okay. So far I’m feeling great about these mediocre tasks. Here’s what I’ve taken on:
1. Hydrating.
From going full days without a single drop of water and sustaining myself on caffeine, I’ve committed to drinking at least 500ml. Yes, I know it’s not a lot, but according to my digestive system I’m doing God’s work right now.
2. Making my bed.
I'm not going to lie, doing this task makes me feel absolutely nothing. I know a lot of people say it helps them set up their day, but I’ve been doing it every day for two weeks now and all I have are sore arms from fluffing out my bedding. However, I will persist.
3. Eating vegatbles.
Yes, I know. Super lame. Since I moved out of my parents' house a few years ago, I've been living off instant noodles, tuna and rice.
There have been way too many times in my 20s where I’ve eaten something green and thought to myself,
"Wow, I think this is the first time I’ve eaten a vegetable in a month."
After committing to a minimum of one veggie a day, both my inner self and my bowel movements thank me.
So these are my three big (to me) lifestyle changes. They don’t seem like a lot or actually anything at all but holy crap my mental health has improved drastically. I have more energy in the day; I feel like I’m actually taking care of myself and my change in mood and approach to external expectations has improved as well.
I am definitely going to continue this journey of reaching peak extremely mediocre-ness, I might even... exercise 👀.
Stay tuned!
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