A glowing Carrie Bickmore, cradling her newborn daughter, leaning in to her beaming partner.
It looks like the kind of blissed-out baby picture we’ve seen time and time again in our Instagram feeds. But then there’s The Project host’s caption, and with it a reminder that beyond the artifice lies the messy, conflicted, exhausting truth of new parenthood.
Carrie shared the post to her page on Tuesday, to mark one month since her third child, Adelaide, came into the world.
“1 MONTH OLD TODAY,” she wrote.
“Sleep [thumbs down]
Boobtime [thumbs up]
Googling ‘what is reflux at 3am?’ [thumbs up]
Late night pram walks [thumbs up]
Cuddles [thumbs up]
Arguments [thumbs up]
Conflicting advice given [thumbs up]
Struggle with existing 3 year old [thumbs up]
Hours spent staring at Adelaide [thumbs up]
Feeling overwhelmed [thumbs up]
Feeling like it’s all going to be ok [thumbs up]
Eating meals with 1 hand [thumbs up]
Witching hour is witching 4 hours [thumbs up]
Tears of happiness [thumbs up]
Tears of exhaustion [thumbs up]
Surviving on 4 hours broken sleep [thumbs up]
A trip back to hospital with mastitis [thumbs up]
Getting 5 mins to myself [thumbs down]
Bursting with love and gratitude [thumbs up]”
The glimpse into those first four weeks struck a chord with Carrie’s followers. More than 55,000 people reacted to the sentiment, among them a few famous names, including television sports presenter Erin Molan, former Today presenter Sylvia Jeffreys, and celebrity trainer Tiffany Hall.
“Sending you all the powers,” Hall wrote. “Nothing is as hard as those first 12 weeks. Nothing! What I would give to sniff a baby’s head though! That smell amazing how it makes you survive.”
Australian model Megan Gale, who gave birth to her second child in October 2017, added, “Hang in there Mama Bear.. you’ve done this.. you’ve GOT this.
“These first 12 weeks seem like an eternity but you KNOW when you look back it will seem like it all happened in a blink of an eye. Enjoy the teeny baby snuggles as much as you can through bleary eyes. [sic]”
Carrie and her partner, Chris Walker, also have a three-year-old girl, Evie, and Carrie has an 11-year-old son, Oliver, from her marriage to Greg Lange, who tragically died of brain cancer in December 2010.
The couple announced the impending arrival of little ‘Addie’ in June via an Instagram video, in which they broke the news to their two their eldest.
“Hey some exciting news to share with you. We are having a BABY. How funny is Evie asking if it’s twins. No honey it’s not twins!” the video was captioned.
In the months since, Carrie has been admirably open and honest about the “hell-like” pregnancy period and those difficult weeks post-partum. She recently posted in praise of Chris and other loved ones who have supported her through it all.
“While I rest Chris looks after Adelaide, wrangles a cray cray 3 year old, folds the clothes and entertains a bored 11 year old …#DomesticGod,” she wrote on Instagram. “You can tell I am feeling grateful today…it would be so hard without support…grandparents helping out, and friends dropping off meals. Thanks to everyone helping us get through these early days.”
Top Comments
The first 3 months is hell! I don't know how these media personalities return to work after 6 weeks, even with help - it would be HARD. Hats off to them.
A lot of women return to work after 6weeks - not just media personalities!
I personally don't know of any who have done so, and didn't think it was common practise in Australia - but hats off to any woman who does.
Yep definitely hats off to them! One of my friends went back after 6weeks, out of necessity. But I know of a few women who have gone back that early, hence the reason childcare is available from 6 weeks old.