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"To the family of 21-year-old Aiia Masarwe, we are so sorry."

Since the publication of this article a 20-year-old man has been arrested over the murder of Aiia Masarwe. 

Aiia Masarwe, a 21-year-old international student, was on the phone to her sister as she walked home from The Comics Lounge on Tuesday evening.

It was a warm night, right in the middle of the Australian summer.

Friends dropped her at the 86 tram, police understand, after attending the show in North Melbourne.

She got off on the corner of Plenty Road and Main Drive, and began the short walk home.

The familiar voice of her sister likely made her feel safer, navigating the dark streets in a foreign country.

But as they spoke, suddenly their conversation was interrupted by another voice. Or voices. The phone fell, and Aiia was gone.

Her sister tried to call back. There was no answer.

We know that the student of La Trobe University, who had been in the country for six months, was likely murdered in the moments that followed. Her sister sat powerlessly, more than 13,000 kilometres away.

Neighbours reported screaming in the early hours of Wednesday morning.

But it wasn’t the voice of Aiia.

It was the sound of the woman who found her.

The student, who was less than a kilometre from her home, was partially dressed, with her sandals, phone, a book and her water bottle, scattered around her.

Aiia came to Australia, a country that believes itself safe, and never returned home.

Following the murder of Grace Millane, a 21-year-old English backpacker who was killed on New Zealand soil, allegedly by a 26-year-old-man, the Prime Minister issued a public apology.

Jacinda Ardern said, “There is this overwhelming sense of hurt and shame that this has happened in our country, a place that prides itself on our hospitality.

“Your daughter should have been safe here, and she wasn’t,” the Prime Minister continued. “And I’m sorry for that.”

Aiia, too, should have been safe. Her family believed it was safe.

Her uncle told The Guardian, “We never thought something like this would happen in Australia.”

Though it means little now, to a family who will never see their curly-haired, driven, and impossibly smart, daughter and sister again; we are so sorry.

We are sorry to Aiia, who we failed.

On Friday morning, Prime Minister Scott Morrison tweeted: “My heart goes out to Aiia’s family and friends and everyone whose life she touched. An incredibly shocking, despicable and tragic attack.”

The words, “We are sorry,” are notably missing – as though the attack itself had nothing to do with the country she happened to be in.

But Aiia’s death took place almost seven months to the day after 22-year-old Eurydice Dixon – a woman who was also murdered, by someone she did not know, walking home from a comedy show in Melbourne.

On the same Saturday in July, a 76-year-old woman named Jan Garrett was murdered inside her home. A man believed to be her live-in carer has been charged with her murder. Then Amanda Harris, a childcare worker and mother of three, was set alight inside her home. Her partner was the perpetrator.

In October, 2018, 24-year-old Toyah Cordingley’s lifeless body was found at a beach near her home. She had been murdered while walking her dog.

In the same month, Gayle Potter, a 46-year-old mother-of-three was killed on her own property, when a local man ran her over with his car.

In the same month, Kristie Powell, 39, was murdered in her own home, a few metres away from her baby boy.

This week, the body of Pilbara woman, 36-year-old Felicity Shadbolt was found in Tom Price, Western Australia. She had gone missing after a bush walk.

Perhaps the saddest part of this whole story is that Aiia’s family so strongly believed that things like this do not happen in Australia. But they do.

All the time.

Sorry means this tragedy never should have occurred. It means a commitment, to ensuring it never happens again.

And following the murder of so many women, in such horrific circumstances, saying sorry, is surely the least we can do.

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Top Comments

WRLO56 . 5 years ago

Correct me if I'm wrong, but aren't New Zealand and Australia two separate countries? It's not a case where the PM issued an apology in one case, but not in the other; it's a case where the PM of one country felt that an apology was warranted, but the PM of a neighbouring country did not feel the same way.

The author of this badly written piece has gone back over 6 months and listed a large number of murders, taken from two countries. Some of these are by rapists who attacked complete strangers; others are the result of domestic or partner violence; still others were apparently robberies gone wrong, or murders committed in the furtherance of robberies.

Were no men murdered in Australia and/or New Zealand during those seven months?

Yes, it sucks that there is still violent crime in the world. Yes, it sucks when the victim is some 20-something female university student who has a bright and promising future.

But for some reason, we're expected to believe that all these crimes
should be blamed on the people and governments of Australia and New
Zealand, and that if I were a better person, that would magically translate into a country with no violent crime. That's ridiculous.

Anne Stephens 5 years ago

I think the suggestion is that we as a society create the murderers. Not you or me in particular but abuse, neglect, etc creates a person that would murder. The article is about violence against women, not against men, another article may be about crime and murder but not this one...I think that the young woman was a visitor to our country like the backpacker in NZ is the reason for an apology.


Anonymous 5 years ago

Let’s put a night curfew on men so they really understand what it’s like being a woman, relegated indoors after dark because of their violence. Then all the good men, which is luckily most of them, will be more motivated to do something about men’s violence. There are more men than women in important decision-making roles in this country. They should be doing more.

Scott Morrison, we need more prisons and more courts with more judiciary staff to put these violent men there. The police need more help keeping these animals off the street. This has been needed for too long. Women are dying. Act on this now Scott Morrison.

Susie 5 years ago

Law enforcement is a state, not a federal issue. Daniel Andrews has dropped the ball, considering it was in Melbourne that 3 women have recently been raped and murdered on his watch.

anonymous 5 years ago

Didn't realise that violence against women happened in Melbourne only. How about all governments within Australia provide more prison beds and court funding then? Once again Susie, a constructive contributor to arguments affecting women. Hope your liberal party membership fees aren't too high this year.

Michael 5 years ago

Dan is more concerned about "diversity" and activism than safety.

Michael 5 years ago

About 80% of the murder victims in Australia every year are men. Males are usually the perpetrator and the victim. Locking all men up doesnt sound like a very good idea to me.