Shopping is bad enough as it is with the litany of dress sizes, death stares and obstacles between you and the purchase of something that fits or looks good. It just is. So, needless to say, we don’t exactly need snooty store employees giving us hell when we’re looking around.
Enter a woman who just wanted to be left alone and wasn’t. She fired off the below letter to the owner of the store and received one in reply. It’s a comedy of almost pantomime proportions but it shows just how seriously some of these types take themselves. And it’s little wonder we’re all turning to online …
Anyway, judge for yourself:
“From the customer, Keara O’Neil:
Hi,
I had the privilege of shopping at your brand new Chapel St store on Saturday 24th September with my three bridesmaids in tow.
On the hunt for bridesmaids dresses and a hens dress for myself we walked into the store and were automatically pounced on by a male staff member, I understand that this is protocol for many retail outlets and ours is no different.
The staff member was initially funny and extremely helpful with sizes etc. I chose a bright pink dress to try on but was unable to do the zip up so asked for the size up, when I eventually got the correct size and came out of the change room I was unable to discuss the likes or dislikes of the dress with my bridesmaids as the sales assistant kept saying “You should just get it”. When I told him I would think about it, he pulled me aside and whispered “Is it the price your worried about?”
By now I was extremely frustrated, and again told him I’d think about it, I walked back into the change room and closed the door behind me, only to have it pushed open with the sales assistant half standing in my change room, again whispering “I think you should just get it”, when I gave him attitude and said rudely, “I already told you I would think about it”, he then replied, “With your figure I really think you should buy it”.
I’m not sure exactly what he meant by that, but considering the attitude used to deliver such a statement I can only imagine that it was an immature dig in relation to my healthy size 12 frame.
I got changed in a hurry and walked right out of the change rooms and out of the store, I could hear the sales assistant yelling out to me, but I just ignored him and continued to leave, assuming my bridesmaids would follow.
After waiting down the road for my bridesmaids to come out of the store I was told by one of them that the sales assistant yelled out “Have fun finding something at Supre”, when one of them approached him in regards to his comments, he replied “I knew you girls were a joke the minute you walked in”.
When my bridesmaids walked out of the store another two customers walked out with them, they too could not believe the immaturity of the sales assistant.
I have worked in retail for 12 years and have come across an array of customer complaints over the years, none of which come even close to what I encountered on Saturday at your store, I wish I was exaggerating but unfortunately for your company this person actually exists and is working in one of your stores.
I am pretty laid back and was quite happy just leaving your store, it was my bridesmaids who felt the need to say something to him. I dread to think how many customers he has not only offended but how many customers have left your store due to the pressure placed on getting the sale, and then to be harassed when that sale hasn’t taken place.
Ring me, don’t ring, not fussed………I’m just one retailer notifying another of an extremely inappropriate sales assistant.
And here is the response.
Store representative, Area Manager Matthew Chidgey:
Having now had the privilege of having both version of events, I am now in a position to respond to your complaint.
From the very outset, one thing that you should be mindful of is; Our product offerings are very, very carefully selected, so to ensure that we do not appeal to a broad customer base. This is something which is always at the forefront of our minds when undertaking buying duties.
The reason for this is to ensure that we only carry products which appeal to a very fashion forward consumer. This by default means that the customer whom is acclimatised to buying from “clothing for the masses” type retailers, is almost frightened by our range, sometimes we have found that this type of customer, almost finds our dresses funny, and on occasion noted comments such as ‘it looks like a dead flamingo’.
When we receive comments like this, we like to give ourselves and our buyers, a big pat on the back, because we know we are doing our job right, and modus operandi is being upheld.
Our range is worn by A list celebrities to the likes of Kim Kardashian, Selena Gomez and Katy Perry to name only a few. Now, as one might appreciate, the style counsel for these types of celebrities are not ones to pick “run of the mill” type clothing, and they do so on the basis to ensure that the styles are cutting edge, and only worn by a select few. Similarly these items are priced such that they remain inaccessible to the undesirable.
Insofar as our employee goes; Similar to our product offerings, our employees are selected with a similar approach. Chris whom served you is a qualified stylist whom has a sixth sense for fashion, and Chris’s only problem is that he is too good at what he does, and as I am sure you are aware, people whom are talented, generally do not tolerate having their time wasted, which is the reason you were provoked to leave the store.
Whilst I concede that you work for chain retailer, unfortunately that does not make us like for like. It is probably fair to assume, a lot of what I have said in this email, either doesn’t make sense to you, or you totally disagree with it all, which is what I would expect (unless of course I have you totally wrong –which I doubt).
Let me guess, you would never, ever hire Chris in the course of your duty, would you? This is the very reason, why your comment “from one retailer to another” is so disproportionate, it’s almost as though we are in a totally different industries. Chris is a retail superstar, who possess unparalleled ability, and I am sorry you feel upset by him, but he knew you were not going to buy anything before you even left your house.
So if you would like to do us any favours, please do not waste our retail staff’s time, because as you have already seen, they will not tolerate it. I am sure there are plenty of shops that appease your taste, so I respectfully ask that you side step our store during future window shopping expeditions.”
Whoa. The story was broken by Ling Tung at the Best Beauty Blog where she added this update later today:
“Seeing as it is a major trending topic, I decided to ring GASP myself. Yep, the same store on Chapel Street where Chris “the retail superstar” works. I spoke to someone called Sammy at 17.48pm. I asked her if I could have an official statement from GASP. She said, “No.” I asked her if the email which was circulating around the internet a hoax. “No, it’s true.” I asked her how she felt about it. She said, “I don’t care. It’s got nothing to do with me.” I was tempted to ask if I could speak to Chris, the man himself, but I chickened out… He probably wouldn’t want to speak to me as his “sixth sense of fashion” would inform him that I am still wearing my PJs from last night. And there you go! IT IS NOT A HOAX!!!!”
So, when has a shopping trip turned foul for you? Do you feel sorry for the employee at all?
GASP clothing. Fashion forward or no? You be the judge.

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I was queuing to try on a clothes, the staff member without looking just pointed at the fitting room on the very corner and I went there. When I came out, she accused me of stealing and ask to check my small clutch (its about 10x15cm, even my purse filled all the room inside that clutch), because it was actually their “storage room”. What could I possibly hide inside that bag??? As if it wasn’t bad enough, I was going to leave the store but my friend is still inside the fitting room, so I waited. The staffs were talking about me!! Anw, that long letter is just a prove of how stupid they are, all meaningless words. I never go inside that store anymore!
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sounds like the responding letter was written by the chris the superstar himself.
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I was a customer of GASP in mid-2010. It was a young lady that served me though. I walked into the store with my friend, who was trying on clothes when the lady told me to try on a jacket, the same one she was wearing, because the jacket I was wearing at the time “made me look fat”. Reluctantly (and being intimidated by this shop assistant) I made my way into the change room to try the jacket on.
After expressing my dislike for the jacket inside the change room, she then barged in (I was half naked) and told me to put the jacket back on. She then told me that I had a much nicer figure in the jacket and that she would slash $50 off the price.
Being the shy 16-year old I was, I didn’t know how to express my utter hate for this horrid jacket, and SOMEHOW she convinced me to buy it.
So 5 minutes, and $200 later, I had finally gained the strength to march back into the store and demanded a refund. She stood there and looked at me like I was crazy and said, “no refunds here, babe” in a condescending tone.
An even longer story short, she called the police who told her they couldn’t do anything about it because it is a civil matter and I was not causing any harm to anyone and I still have the disgusting jacket in my wardrobe.
I’m so glad someone else has brought up the issue of these people! They are a shocking example of a retailer, and I hope they get what is coming to them!
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I think that is absolutely discusting.
I had a look at some of those clothings they sell but they are just rather overpriced
not something I would waste my money on.
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If he walked in on me in the changeroom I’d knock his lights out. Plus, the clothes look like something I’d find in Harts or Supre.
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Gasp is crap! The store is always empty ! And just because a few celeb might have worn ONE dress in the last DECADE doesnt mean they are regulars.. Kim Kardashian always looks classy, dont think you could find classy stuff in a shop where the dresses make you look like your punani is hangin out !
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I had a similar experience with the same shop assistant Chris late in 2010. After bursting into the change room while I was in a bra and undies and repeatedly trying to pressuring me into buying I tried to depart the store. He yelled at me as I was leaving “I’m just trying to make you look good unlike that disgusting dress you are wearing you ugly bitch.” My dress was Yeojin Bae (teamed with a Prada bag and shoes) which is entirely beside the point except for the fact that Gasp claims that Chris has impeccable style.
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There are a couple of dresses I don’t mind but most are eurk!
Whats with all the mullet dresses?!
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Fashion Forward, or Slutty Chapel St whore-clones on a Friday night..?
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It looks identical to Supre anyway. The topless model in jeans shots….
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Those dresses are cheap and tacky, any one that would pay an inflated price for them is an idiot.
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Is it just me? I can’t see the difference between Supre and Gasp…At least the girls in Supre are nice!
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Having worked in retail, sometimes I feel sorry for the employee, because often they are trained to sell products in a certain way.
However, as a customer, I have never had a pleasant experience at Gasp. I have either been completely ignored or harassed out of the store. You catch more flies with honey…
Also, is it just me, or do those jeans give that teeny model a muffin top?
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Ah, no, it’s not just you! She indeed has a muffin top. See earlier funny comments about that.
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Ha, those comments were good. By the way, just went back and watched the guy who wrote the email on the 7PM Project, and he claims that they have size up to size 24…you’d be lucky to find a size 14!!
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Surely there’s concern about a male sales assistant going into a female customers changeroom uninvited – sexual harassment perhaps????
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I doubt it. That Chris is so tightly wound, I doubt he would be capable of anything remotely sexual – harrassment or otherwise.
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I want to inform that the girl named “Sammi” is actually one of the Gasp managers. she checks in at Melbourne Central sometimes and mainly at Chapel street. As a manager her response is extremely amateur and stupid.
Now everyone can get a glimpse at what are Gasp retail staffs are made of.
How can a manager respond with “I don’t care, it has nothing to do with me?” GASP IS A JOKE!
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Hi All, my response from GASP was completely legit, every single word of it, in fact I left a few other things out…..had my ‘sixth sense’ predicted my email would go viral I would have ensured I included it all. Dammit!!
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Oooh would love to know what was left out? Because what was left in was pure gold.
I had fun making up another letter from him actually. http://www.midthirtieslife.com/2011/10/gasps-response-to-my-last-post.html
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Well, dish it up now please.
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Say Keara, assuming that this is really you, I have some questions. Just out of curiosity, that picture of you that was used by News Limited across all their online publications — did you supply that to them? Or did they take that picture in their studio with their photographer? Did you get to keep a copy? See, it does not appear here because News Ltd has the IP rights. Did News Limited pay you for your pic?
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Someone should teach Matthew about the overuse of the word ‘whom’…..
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Watch their profit margins shrink to a size zero too! Idiots.
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So what if he was rude. If the response to the customers initial letter is anything to go by it’s obvious the store is targeting a certain market demographic, and if anyone outside that demographic walks into the store they provoke them into leaving. Guess what, that’s their right. They obviously feel they’ve already secured a large enough market share to sustain profitability. There are boutiques that only make their garments up to a size 8….gee I wonder why? Maybe they don’t want larger people walking the streets in their garments telling all their friends what label they’re wearing. Last I checked Versace did not have a plus size section in their boutiques. Elitism has always existed in the fashion industry, it’s not new, so get over it.
Having said that, why would anyone shop at Gasp? From the dresses I looked at on their website I only saw a couple that were not completely hideous. Some of the dresses had amazing lines and fluidity but were made with revolting fabric, or over done with cheap unnecessary appliques. The finishing on some of the dresses spoke volumes about garment construction – or the complete lack of. As evidenced by fabric puckering on seams – which can be avoided if the proper principals were applied. Poorly finished machine stitched hems. Bodices that don’t sit right. Dress lines that create a ‘stumpy’ appearance, and the vulgar blend of differing fabrics into one garment.
Oh and whoever their artistic director is needs a bullet…peeptoe ankle boots with a platform and 5 inch spike stiletto with a knee length flesh tone fitted halter neck…..really?? Could you make the poor underfed model look any frumpier?
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Obviously people (the people commenting on this blog) care if shop assistants are rude. You obviously work in fashion which I don’t know much about to be honest but just because you do or the people at Gasp do, doesn’t give you a right to be rude and discriminate against larger sized people!
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I spoke to an old work colleague online today when I saw she had uploaded this article onto her Facebook page. Turns out she’s had an experience with good ole’ Chris herself! She was just browsing the store and he convinced her to try on a few dresses. Whilst she was trying on one of these dresses he remarked that she was tiny and had a great body. When she didn’t respond he said, ‘what, you don’t think so? Have you ever considered liposuction?’ Not jokingly, dead serious (she is a size 8). At this stage she went back into the changeroom, put her clothes back on and walked right out of the store.
I also heard a story on the radi where a woman rang in. Apparently the guy had called this woman a ‘fat bitch’ as she walked out of the store because she hadn’t bought anything! She, also, was a size 8!
This is unbelievable…I almst wanna go into the store just to check this guy out but I know a lot of people would be doing the same thing and I don’t want to encourage the store to get more customers!!
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It reminds me of Absolutely Fabulous: ‘drop the attitude sweety, you only work in a shop’
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Yes !! Love it !!
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This time yesterday, I had never heard of gasp, and now I have visited their website. Just saying.
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yes they will have more traffic – but the percentage of those that will turn into a purchase – me thinks small!
The dresses are trashy in my opinion, but i am not their target market so…..
Any publicity is good publicity??
Chris sounds like a dickhead……
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This customer’s experience doesn’t surprise me in the least. I shopped in Gasp a few times and always had a horrible experience. I found their staff to be some of the pushiest, dodgiest and most unprofessional around.
I was trying on a dress for my best friend’s wedding in their store and said to the sales assistant that I think the dress is overpriced ($800) and that I wasn’t going to spend that amount of money. Unlike Chris, she literally refused to let me out of the store until she lowered the price to the point where I was going to buy it. She kept spinning some story of how she is going to give me a special price but she can only do it “today” when her boss isn’t in and if he found out she was going to get in trouble. Wtf, who makes a sale like that. Obviously her boss authorised her to do whatever it takes to make the sale, as if you can just sell an $800 item for half price if you didn’t have your manager’s permission to do so. Anyway I bought the dress for $400 and I am now ashamed that I own something from this store. Never again!
On another note, it made me think just how much do they mark up their clothes when they are willing to sell them at half price so easily. I didn’t even ask for any kind of a discount, it was all at her initiative.
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I had a similar experience in the Bridge Rd store a few years ago. I tried on this top and I really liked it, but I was 14 and spending $150 on a top was not something I could really afford to do. The sales girl kept pushing me and she actually asked me how much money I had. Sounds like they’ll do anything for a sale! I ended up just walking out she made me so uncomfortable.
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If this is a marketing/PR strategy… you are doing more harm to the brands than good. If this is for real, the Ops manager needs a lesson in customer relations. Customer is always right! Even if they are painful and wrong.
As for the Superstar Chris….. faaaaaaaaaaark! Can I give you a job, you can play the gimp in our office.
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Look what their website is saying now. Enormous amounts of LOL right now. Or should I be horrified that it might actually be true?
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Bulls*it, I am not buying this stunt for a second!
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Publicity stunt.
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These guys are idiots! Everyone boycott their stores so they go broke!!
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Try hards is what comes to mind. It will be fun to watch them go broke
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Yes, that is bitchy. But the cherry topping it off is the massive overuse and incorrect use of ‘whom’:
“Chris whom served you is a qualified stylist whom has a sixth sense for fashion, and Chris’s only problem is that he is too good at what he does, and as I am sure you are aware, people whom are talented, generally do not tolerate having their time wasted, which is the reason you were provoked to leave the store.”
If you’re going to act so snooty and above everyone else, you really need to make sure your understanding of grammar is up to scratch, otherwise you just look like a moron.
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The jeans on that tiny model are so small that they make her look like she has a muffin top when she’s clearly a size 8 or smaller. I think that’s dreadful. Just another yucky aspect to this tacky brand.
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Plain and simple, if Chris was a ‘retail superstar’, lady in question and her bridesmaids would have all bought dresses and the store would have had an extra $2000 in the till.
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You are so right. No one has come from this angle yet. Excellent Smithers…
How to spot a tool – let us count the (many) ways.
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certainly over-airbrushed!
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Keara, did you check for hidden cameras? I can’t believe someone would treat customers this way, no matter who they’re appealing to. This whole thing seems like 2011 Candid Camera.
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I kind of suspect that Chris the Superstar also wrote the email, & is possibly about to get fired by a PR person who should be better at their job. Ithink that the range that Gasp offers looks like tarty formal war, & I wish them all the success they deserve.
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their ‘product offerings’ don’t really speak class or desire… I mean if you have to boast that the Kardashian’s wear your stuff you’re not doing well.
What’s funny is that they say they ‘do not appeal to a broad customer base’ however their only NSW store is in Westfield Parramatta, which is where I go if I’m being a ‘broad customer’ instead of when I’m being selective and looking for something no one else has…
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Another excellent observation. And you weren’t even rude with your ‘being a broad customer’. Well done you! I am still enjoying this.
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My friend passed this email onto me yesterday from her friend Keara. I had mixed emotions. Although I do think their clothing is a bit skanky, I used to have great shopping experiences at GASP back in the day in the Melbourne Central Shop when I bought jeans and shop assistant was lovely and was completely honest about which pair of jeans looked terrible and what look good. However, as I got a bit older and plumper, as soon as I hit a size 12, I was informed by the GASP staff in Chadstone that there was limited choice in clothing for me and the dresses that did fit looked like trumped up Ozzie Ostriches. It is sad that there doesn’t seem to be a happy medium when it comes to shopping these days. Sometimes when you want help you don’t get it and sometimes you get too much assistance. Every shopping experience is different and the good ones will make you go back again and again and bad experiences will steer you away. There are always going to be difficult people to deal with wherever you go in life but my motto is treat others how I want to be treated which seems to work for me.
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Apparently the jeans are so awesome you don’t even need to wear a top with them… I’m not one at ALL for thinking much about clothes but not many of these seemed particularly ‘exclusive’ to me… TBH I spent far more time wishing the poor model was allowed to eat something now and then!
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The cynic in me thinks this whole story is a PR exercise right from the complaint to the response, albeit a crazy risky approach, but hey, it has got their brand name front and centre. I doubt it has alienated their main customer base, who must now feel a bit more special since they are classified as ‘desirable’ customers by the spokesperson? It puts the rest of us off but from the sounds of it the majority of us on here wouldn’t shop there anyway…
I’m sure there will be a few more Gasp bags on the arms of ladies around Melbourne in coming weeks….Summer / Spring racing carnival are all coming up and I reckon the Chapel street store will be buzzing this weekend!
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Does anyone feel this story reminds them a little of Julia Roberts in “Pretty Woman’?
I recently came into quite a bit of money and after renting for 10 years, I bought my investment properties through the real estate agent who had treated me well as a tenant as well as looking after the property I was in. They didn’t have what I wanted on their books at the time but I was happy to wait until they did because I wanted them to have the commission.
I hope that all of the ‘A-list stars’ who wear these clothes read this email and boycott simply for the cause of common decency.
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Some of their clothes look nice, the rest makes them like street walkers.
Oh god, I’m my mother
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Are ill fitting jeans fashion forward?
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Must be. That model was skinny skinny skinny, but jeans were all hitting at the wrong spot and making it look otherwise.
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Yeah, and I would like to expect that I wouldn’t need a brazillian either.
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I love how half the pictures on there website haven’t even had the watermark of the original supplier website removed
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As someone who works with brides wanting to lose weight for their wedding day, I see first hand the anxiety brides feel about their bodies in the lead up to their wedding and my heart goes out to the girl to have had her figure insulted when shopping.
Our recent annual Bride Body Wedding Dress Survey found 25% of brides were waiting to lose weight BEFORE they even began shopping for their wedding dress. Many of these brides told us they were even dreading wedding dress shopping more than bikini shopping …and they have a good point-at least with swimmers all the options aren’t white!
One more finding to share with you all- of those who have started wedding dress shopping 20% said that they had been really looking forward to wedding dress shopping until they actually started!
Retailers need to understand that brides and bridesmaids come in all shapes and sizes and to work with them to find a style that best flatters their body shape. I work on making brides feel confident and great in their bodies, we need retailers to help them feel confident and great in their dresses!
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Gasp is so bad it is humorous. I often walk past a local store and wonder if the clothing they are displaying is for real or some sort of bad joke!
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Makes me think of when I first started working in an office, I went to Collins St (Melbourne) on the Saturday to buy some more work clothes. I was in jeans, casual, but not scruffy. I went into David Lawrence and started looking through the suits. The assistant comes up to me, turns up her nose, and says, “the casual wear is upstairs”.
Sorry lady, but you just lost a sale.
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What is the deal with this? What are we meant to wear on weekends?
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Oh, didn’t you hear? You are only allowed to choose one style and then stick to it. If you choose jeans, then I’m sorry, you can never wear anything else! Yeah, because the Kardashians and all the other A-lister go shopping, sleep and even swim in suits and evening wear.
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the kardashians are a-list? did everyone in hollywood just die (including handjob-giving homeless crack addicts?) to promote them to a-list status?
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Please….You can but most of these dresses online for most likely half the price. They are nice, but nothing special.
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The tone of the email makes me think maybe Chris intercepted it and replied before management got it.
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Hey, yeah! And the first management knew of it was after it was in the public domain. I like it.
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I feel sorry for shop assistants…we can’t win for losing. If you say hello to customers you get accused of being pushy if you don’t say hello you get accused of being rude and ignoring them. Customers try clothes on and leave them all over the floor, they ask for a opionion and then accuse you of lying. Some customers think its ok to tell everyone in the store how much they dislike all the stock in the shop. Don’t get a surprise when assistants in shop try to sell you something…its their job!!! Oh and I forgot the classic…customers never want to speak to you until the phone rings then they want your undivided attention.
I am not saying the what happened at Gasp is right but usually when groups of girls shop together they become unspeakably rude as they feel very brave in a crowd!! Not all shop assistants are crap and I have often thought about writing a book about the shitty way sales assistants get treated by customers. (sadly I have no writing ability what so ever). xx
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Jennifer I so agree with you! I was a fashion retail sales assistant for about 8 years and for some people, no matter what you do, you will always end up offending their idea of what customer service should be.
Its a tough gig – low pay and constantly having to deal with people talking down to you or finding other ways to demonstrate they do not value you (people who contemptuously fling their money or credit card at you spring to mind).
The horror stories i have! One lady was trying on some clothes in the chage room and her daugher (about 4 years old) pulled her pants down in the middle of the room and peed! The mother looked at me without even attempting to cover the carpet, waited til her daughter had emptied her entire bladder, then yelled “I’m sorry, I can’t deal with this” and ran out of there! My colleagues and I then had to clean it up and deal with other customers complaining how “utterly disgusting” we/our store was for the rest of the day.
That said, I also had many regular customers and colleagues with whom I developed wonderful working relationships and the job was often fun and rewarding.
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But, at the end of the day, it’s a customer service role. If people are rude, that’s horrible, but you work in customer service, and chose to work there, so there’s never an excuse to be rude in return.
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What you are saying is 100% correct…its never ok to be rude to customers, we chose to work in the customer service industry and up to a point we have to take it. Alot of customers know this and take advantage of it, they know we can’t answer back so we just have to stand there and take it. Some customers will tell you that your stupid,slow,useless…one cutomer told me recently that “a girl in cheap shoes should say nothing”…another lady would not speak to me at all and her husband did all the talking, he asked me not to spaek to her as she dosen’t like talking to servants!! I nearly cried…yes they spent alot of money and my boss was very happy…but never in 30 years in the retail industry have I felt so worthless…and as I have said you just have to stand there and take it…with a smile. xx
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“its never ok to be rude to customers……and as I have said you just have to stand there and take it… ” and “you work in customer service, and chose to work there, so there’s never an excuse to be rude in return.”
Right, so if someone wanders in and demands a blow job or tellls you to eff back to your own country, that makes it OK because they are spending money?
See, if that letter of reply had been written by, say, a government official I’d the first in line to demand the Minister’s head because users of government services have no other option.
It is rather obvious that Ms O’Neil was being overtly told to sod off. The writer’s clearly going out of their way to be offensive. So what? That is their right. No-one put a gun at O’Neil’s head and forced her to go to that store.
Even though I have never owned a business and I have worked in customer service (so there’s my argumentum ad verecundiam ), a business has the right to pick and choose their customers and, so long as they do not engage in ****unlawful*** discrimination, the business can do as they like. If there are ramifications of that, let the market decide. Shocking revelation, I know.
I think what drove the frenzy of opinion that followed across the media was unpinned by three broad social phenomena;
1) people could identify with O’Neill because she is representative of most Australian girls. She is of the typical larger frame of most women and hold down an honest down a working class job. So she was the “Every Girl. “
2) Yet, perversely, there was also a great deal of classism at work. It seemed many correspondents across the interwebz took it as an opportunity to $hit kick someone they saw as an uppity shop assistant who dared to act above his station. The irony, of course, is that many of those who claimed to take umbrage at the supposed snobbery in the reply to Ms O’Neill showed the very same snobbery that they claimed to abhor.
3) There is a prevailing attitude within Australia that a shop/café/bar is under some kind of mandatory obligation to wait on every single person who enters the business with servility as you Jennifer, have pointed out . Where is it written that a server MUST shed their dignity for minimum wage. In fact, it is not up for any price.
The News Limited media spun O’Neill’s version of events as gospel truth and yet, if one reads her letter carefully and analytically, there are some questions of credibility that need be asked:
O’Neill does seem a bit sensitive about her dress size — to wit “healthy size 12 frame” — or else she would not have mentioned it. Even allowing for the fabled five kilos the camera adds, her professionally shot picture posed for News Limited suggests that she is larger than a size 12. Of course, it does not matter what size she is BUT if she can lie about that, what other lies does she tell?
HER words: “I’m not sure exactly what he meant by that, but considering the attitude used to deliver such a statement I can only imagine that it was an immature dig in relation to my healthy size 12 frame”. Note she admits: ” imagine” and “not quite sure” . So is it possible that it was all in her head? Brides-to-be are notoriously fickle.
She speculates about happened to other customers. That is pure conjecture.
She claims her friends told her what the server said. That is just hearsay. She was not an eye-witness.
Yes, the AM’s letter of reply was acerbic but he was arguably provoked. He does say that he heard the “both sides of the story”. We don’t know what really happened in that store. All we have is her dubious account of events, and News Ltd’s spin.
There are customers who will resort to false complaints to extort a benefit by deception. Not saying that O’Neill set out to extort but perhaps there was an action in the store that caused the reaction from Gasp.
I expect to be flamed for this but I am merely putting it out there because I think there is something seriously wrong when people — including the servers themselves — in this supposedly egalitarian country seem to think that spending money makes them automatically deserving of unquestioning servility. (And I also think it is insane that everyone just swallowed News Ltds’ spin on this story.)
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Jennifer, if you think retail is hard try working in a hotel for a while. I’ve had people poo in the hallways when they’re drunk. They wee in pot plants. They put poo in sinks. They leave dirty tampons/pads/nappies and used condoms all over the room. People hang themselves from shower railings. There’s rape and domestic violence and theft. And if you’re on night shift when most of these things tend to occur you have to deal with all of them and then pretend to care at 6am when someone complains about their coffee being lukewarm.
Your customer service role may be a little hard, but there are WAY worse ones. And after all of these experiences, I have never ONCE been rude to a customer.
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Hi BB…interestingly I don’t work in the retail industry any more…my family and I own a resort …the poo the wee, backsides wiped on curtains, toe nail clippings on the carpet, shit floating in the pool,stolen televisions, family punch ups, the vomit!! admittedly no deaths as yet but who knows what will happen this weekend…and despite it all I too have never ONCE been rude to a customer either. I just take the money and smile. xx
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I have had that ‘you’re not going to buy anything’ attitude before. If I’m going to be trying a lot of stuff on I like to wear a zip up hoody because I don’t want to muck up my hair. And jeans and sneakers because I do a lot of walking.
I do this because I like to be comfortable. I was going to spend – and did wind up spending – $500 on a special dress. If whenever I look at the dress I remember your nasty sales attitude it spoils it for me, so i won’t buy it. Even if I’m not the kind of person you want to see in your clothes, I suspect you’d like my money all the same.
As far as the Gasp fashion goes, if those bandage dresses are fashion forward I’m glad I’ll be able to get my old one out of the cupboard soon! Some of it is okay, the material looks a little cheap to me but I’d have to see it in real life.
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Wow really? I wear slip on shoes and a dress so it’s easy to take them on and off. Trying to get in and out of sneakers (laces!) and a hoodie (getting the zip to link up at the bottom) and jeans (come ON!) sounds like a nightmare.
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Well, it is winter! My sneakers are slip on too!
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Friends don’t let friends shop at GASP…
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