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Tiffany's breakdown on I'm A Celeb begs the question, why is anxiety still seen as entertainment?

When she was picked for a challenge on yesterday’s episode of I’m a Celebrity Get Me Out of Here, singer Tiffany Darwish immediately looked scared, ashen and deeply stressed.

She began to shake. She weakly proclaimed that producers had promised to warn her before she was asked to undergo a challenge involving heights.

The following day, Darwish faced dangling – upside down – high on a wire over a dam. She made it clear she is not just afraid of heights, but phobic.

“It’s the scariest thing for me. You feel like you’re going to throw up. I feel like I’m going to throw up,” she said. 

She wept. She shook uncontrollably. She struggled to catch her breath. She felt sick. She sat down, rocking back and forth, trying to comfort herself. Covering her mouth, gripping her stomach. Medics were called. She showed every symptom of an acute panic episode.

As a sufferer of Generalised Anxiety Disorder, the footage left a knot in my gut. This was not a diva moment. This was someone in distress.

A psychologist was quick to comfort the 46 year old, as were hosts Dr. Chris Brown and Julia Morris. She was given every opportunity to exit the situation, but she should never have faced it in the first place.

That's where the guilt takes over. Darwish cried real, breathless tears as she admitted defeat and pulled out of the challenge. Between raw sobs, she spoke of feeling immense guilt at letting everyone down. Her face crumpled in pain.

"It's too much for me. And then I felt guilty because everybody else can do stuff and I can't. And I just feel awful. It just feels awful. It feels awful," she intoned. 

I know that guilt too well - apologising for my fear, for my limitations, for those things I cannot do and those people I let down. Feeling a failure because I am unwell. Those experiences that are almost as hard as the illness itself.

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To the show's credit, the singer was given support, and Dr. Brown offered to step in and take the challenge in her place. The relief on her face, his act of sacrifice, and the warm embrace of sheer thankfulness she offered the vet, was heartwarming.

But it all begs the question: why are we consuming anxiety as entertainment?

Watching willing participants overcome fear to undergo difficult challenges is inspiring, yes. But watching a woman, a real person, have a panic attack - a hideously painful, draining experience - for a few minutes of thrilling television, well, aren't we better than this? Aren't we a little more sensitive, a little more 'woke'?

There's a voyeuristic enjoyment to seeing gagging celebrities eating offal and being splattered with grimy dung water. Even in seeing their apprehension as they take part in dangerous-looking tasks.

But it's not enjoyable seeing someone, who has notified us all she's struggling emotionally, suffer.

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Janelle Claire Berner 6 years ago

I agree it wasn’t entertaining to watch someone have such an anxiety attack but it is part of the show- which she had to know it might be- and they have the support she needed which is always available apparently. I too suffer from anxiety but I felt it was handled well.

Also this wasn’t the day after (it was shown here as the day after) but it is filmed later that day from when they find out- she didn’t have to suffer for a day which sounds a lot worse. Yes anxiety is anxiety and not entertaining but facts are facts also.


BB 6 years ago

I hate shows like this! But this show is BUILT on the premise of people doing things that most of us wouldn't do and she did know (as anyone would) the sort of things expected of her if she participated. I know for a fact I wouldn't do the height challenges or the eating challenges, hence I'd never sign up for this show. She should never have signed up for it - especially considering her serious reaction to heights.

It's all well and good to get on your high horse about it now, but it's sites like this and other media outlets that are constantly advertising this show. Seriously this week, this site has been all about Kylie Kardashian, MAFS and I'm a Celebrity ... could you get more shallow? Where are the articles about women doing great things, entertainment news is always good, but your whole site seems to be predominantly about TV shows

Guest 6 years ago

Yes, so much for "what women are talking about". If this site really is representative of that, it's a sad inditement of women.

FLYINGDALE FLYER 6 years ago

Apparently women love these shows.And before I may be bagged out for this comment,isnt the premise for this blog, what women are talking about and it must be so that women love talking about these things