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The 9 questions to ask yourself before homeschooling your child.

Often, parents hesitate to homeschool their children with special needs because they do not believe they are equipped and prepared to homeschool. Let’s go ahead and prove that idea is untrue. The great inventor Thomas Edison was homeschooled after his public school teacher claimed he was “addled.” Edison credits his mother with educating him and instilling a love of knowledge.

Additionally, Dr. Duvall, the director of the School Psychology Training Program at Fort Hays State University, conducted a study comparing students with special needs in a traditional public school environment and students with special needs in a homeschool environment. His results (as quoted by HSLDA) led him to state, “These results clearly indicate that parents, even though they are not certified teachers, can create instructional environments at home that assist students with learning disabilities to improve their academic skills. This study clearly shows that homeschooling is beneficial for special needs students.”

So, if your main consideration has been your qualifications, it is time to move on to discuss more fitting considerations.

1. Why do you want to homeschool your child?

First, why do you want to homeschool your child? Many parents of children with special needs believe their children are not receiving the best education possible, and they believe their children would receive a better education at home. Some parents feel that the traditional classroom does not fit their child with special needs’ unique learning style. Other parents of kids with special needs worry about their physical safety and emotional well-being.

2. What are your child’s needs?

Now that you know why you want to homeschool your child, it is time to consider your child’s needs and whether you will be able to meet those needs in your home. For instance, children with particular challenges such as autism, ADHD, or deafness have unique learning needs, and many of these require additional services and accommodations that you may not have free access to as a homeschooler. If your child is medically fragile, it might be good to take an online CPR certification course to be prepared in case of an emergency.

3. Do you have the time?

Homeschooling is a major time commitment. In addition to being your child’s caregiver, you are now responsible for your child’s education. This requires lesson planning, teaching, and grading in addition to your regular responsibilities.

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4. Are you financially prepared?

Typically, when a child is homeschooled, one of the parents stays home to do the schooling. This means your household will need to survive on one salary. However, homeschooling, itself, tends to be relatively inexpensive. If you can get by on one primary source of income, then it will not be a financial burden.

5. Do you have space?

Many successfully homeschooling families have converted part of their homes to be their learning space. This helps the child transition between school and non-school activities with ease, and it provides a clear structure to the homeschool routine. Additionally, with homeschooling, it is easy to amass a collection of school supplies, and you will need space for them.

6. Is the entire family committed to trying the idea of homeschooling?

You and your spouse must agree when it comes to removing your child with special needs from public school and transitioning to homeschooling. In addition to the time commitment and financial change, homeschooling requires both parents to be committed to educating their children in their home. Additionally, your child should also be open to the idea of homeschooling. If your child is fighting you to attend school, it will make the transition more difficult.

7. What support do you have?

Once you have your family on board with the idea, you also need to think about where you can find support. The good news is that it is easy to find support groups for parents homeschooling children with special needs. In addition to special needs organisations and homeschooling organisations, there are also many social groups and online groups designed for parents, just like you, looking for support.

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8. What are the homeschool laws in your state?

Another consideration is the homeschool laws in your state. These laws vary from state to state. Essentially, some states provide homeschool students with the same free special services they would receive if they were attending public school. However, other states only offered reduced services, and some states do not offer any special services through public schools.

9. Are you willing to ask for help?

Some parents visualise homeschooling as being their own little island. These parents are wrong. Homeschooling is challenging, but it can also be extremely rewarding. However, to reap the full benefits, you must be willing to ask for help and accept it. This means reaching out to support groups, finding resources, and working with doctors, therapists, and tutors as needed.

Now that you’ve considered everything there is to consider about homeschooling your child with special needs, I hope you will see that it is possible. Not only is it possible to homeschool your child with special needs, but it is also likely you and your child will both thrive. Your child will benefit from having individualised instruction, and you will rest easier knowing you are giving your child the chance to reach his or her full potential in a safe environment.

Would you or have you homeschooled your child? Let us know down below!

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🐬 Tash_36 🐬 6 years ago

📚 I live in NSWAustralia & applied through NESA to homeschool Our children.
📚 Iv met the criteria & have been approved to start homeschooling My 13yr Old Son who has High ASD, So being a Caring Parent iv taken matters in my own hands and have taken him out of high school as they did have a Homework Classroom & A Special Ed Classroom but were always to busy to help my son, he will be getting approved as my case worker has told me, my son was bullied in the first 3wks of school and after moving away from SEQ to a country town in NSW Australia I was told he’d have a better schooling environment.
📚 I will not be applying for respite as I did not have my boys to “Palm Them Off“ but my dad has offered to have both our boys for a night over the weekend as they are his grand children after all, my dads brother has Aspergers but the drs call it ASD now.
📚 Im also homeschooling my 9yr Old Son as he To is struggling at school and can’t keep up, he has ADD & Dyslexia, the teacher asks him to do a lot of classroom responsibilities like helping other classmates, taking items to other classes etc but he then gets in trouble for not finishing his own work, iv been to the school on numerous occasions for this and I feel the teacher is taking advantage of my son’s Kind helpful nature, yes there is a teachers Aid in the class but this doesn’t change.
📚 Also the things he learns at school is the same thing every year whether it be * Family History *Anzacs (no disrespect) *Cursive Writing * Story Of Their Life *World War 1 & 2, *9/11 etc But none of those will help the children in their future jobs unless there going to be a tour guide.
📚 Both my boys learning schedule Classes are the same but at different levels, Both boys will be using books for Journel Writting, Creative Writing & Some Art
📚 Iv done a CPR face to face Course as I feel the one online for $30 doesn’t teach you anything, as if the time comes how is a computer going to help you?
📚 I’m a Qualified Aromatherapist, Naturopath, I was a Qualified Chef for 6yrs & I Make dinner & bake - now the boys will be helping more for their Cooking / hospitality class incl introduction to Utensils.
📚 I’m a Registered Nurse which I work 5 nights per week for 8hrs from 9:30pm - 3:30am then I sleep till 10am
Homeschool starts at Mon - Thurs 11:20am - 4:20pm (Friday finishes at 3:20pm)
Dinner + Dessert 5 - 6:30pm
Both Showered/Bathed by 7:30pm
Bed for Aaron 8:15pm Bed For Sam 9pm
Saturday’s: I’m on Call
Sunday’s: Family Time/Lazy Day + Sunday evenings when everyone is asleep I organise the week.
📚 Im A Parent🌟A Teacher🌟A Friend🌟A Cook🌟A Nurse🌟I Chase Scary Dreams Away🌟I guess of you would Call me A Mother & A Damn Good Wife
📚 Iv set up a room for the boys seperate from distractions.
📚 I have Designed & Decorated each boys side of the room in their own theme they chose as there learning Space & NESA Loved it, they loved it that much that they are coming back with their camera and putting it on their website as an example for other parents to see.
📚 I also have cut a old tank in 3 to use as their Agricultural Class ( Gardening, Placing Soil, Placing mulch, Spraying away bugs with my (100% natural pesticide) Watering etc)
📚 I feel I can provide a less stress free learning environment as well as help both boys reach their full potential, they will be choosing 3 different career paths in Grade 10 & in turn will be learning Classes that will benefit those jobs.
📚 Iv organised with my dad since he’s the president of a lawn bowls club to get both boys into for sport and social activity, They both chose that. (Aaron was a breach baby and got a foot stuck which they had to pull back thru with emergency Caesarean so there’s only some sports he can do - he fractured his growth plate a few months back in soccer at the school) And taking them on excursions,
📚 You can get a payment from Centrelink to help with costs as soon as you get the written consent from the Homeschooling Education Department.
📚 You can get this annually and just take it out of the bank as needed or you can get it paid weekly or fortnightly... I chose Annualy + you get a tax payment every year + a Child Disability Payment till the child or children turn 17yrs - then they get the payment.
📚 I Always include our boys in ALL our decisions & iv decided to take 5mths off work to travel and see Australia + I think anyone could do this if they really wanted to.
🌟🌟 Please Don’t Delete This Comment 🌟🌟
Thank you for reading
🦋 Tash


caris_ma 6 years ago

You also need to consider about the no option to have a break/ being emotionally prepared to be with your children all the time during the day. While many be stay at home parents, there is some 'respite' when the child reaches school age. In most cases, homeschooling is run by the primary caregiver, meaning you have to be in parent/teacher mode from the moment your child wakes up until the moment they go to bed (plus any additional 'parenting' chores you may need to do after they are in bed!)