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Best and worst: how's your week been?

Welcome regulars and new folk, welcome to the post that ties us all together.

From Broome to Brisbane and Blacktown to Toorak I think we can all agree our weeks have been filled with the peaks and troughs of life, the universe and everything. (And no, I will never stop quoting Douglas Adams. Never!)

I’ve had a bit of a bizarre week, and a fun one, so I’ve taken the reins for this post and I’ll fill you in on what’s been and gone.

Best: I’ve had a few! On Wednesday night I attended an Australian Marriage Equality briefing with the delightful organiser Alex Greenwich. He’s been working with a dedicated team of tireless individuals like mother of gay son Shelley Argent who campaigns with Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). It’s easy to drift in and out of these kinds of things but these guys are piling on the hours on top of their day jobs to make sure, one day, Australia brings about equality. Of course I have a ‘vested interest’ but given community support, I think it’s only increasingly becoming an issue we all want to see resolved, and quickly. That is, marriage equality. For all of us.

Incidentally the function was held right next door to another. I walked up the stairs and the sign said ‘Marriage Equality’ straight ahead and, to the left, another sign ‘Former Coalition Staffers’. Former Howard Government staffers were having a few social drinks right next door. I laughed, and then we had drinks with a few of them afterwards who were quite on board. The world is a funny old place.

For the record, the biggest protest march yet for marriage equality is planned on December 3 to coincide with the Labor Party vote at the National Conference. If you’re around that day, block out the morning / early afternoon and join us! I’ll be posting more about this closer to the date.

Other Best: I had my first ever massage! Which started out as a daunting experience because I found out during the day I had to take my pants off. Nat had to be the one to break the news to me. “Ummm, yes,” she said. “But not your underwear!”

Small mercies.

But in all seriousness, holy wow! I went to the Old Shanghai Massage House on Oxford Street in Sydney and, despite being busier than a one armed feather stacker in a windstorm, it was an hour of bliss. I fear now it might be a little bit like an addiction and I will spend all my money on massages. Hey, I do work at a computer all day…

On My Mind: I’m flying back home halfway through next week for my younger sister’s Year 12 formal and graduation. It’s so hard to believe this is her last year of school! Eeek. I’m not a father but she’s seven years younger and I like to think (in my later years at least) I’ve been something of a mentor to her. Oh time, you move so very forward.

To take us out today, I’m still giggling at this. Did you catch the ‘Greens Exposed’ on the Hamster Wheel on Wednesday?

Gold.

How’s your week been? Tell us the highs and the lows and the MM community will be there listening.

Top Comments

Ella 13 years ago

Oh my gosh. I have had the most incredible, mind blowing week. I went to the National Youth Health Conference & spoke with a friend of mine about eating disorders & how they are treated in the Australian health care system. I heard such amazing talks about all different aspects of youth health; from energy drink consumption to sleep to mental health to exercise to obesity to EVERYTHING. I met some AMAZING people. I have no idea how I managed to get involved with a group of such wonderful, diverse, dynamic young people, but I am soooooo LUCKY.

I'm still loving my job & had the most full on & amazing shift yesterday. I'm feeling increasingly confident in my job & I got the most awesome appraisal EVER, which I think I'm still on cloud 9 about!

Worst has been that I've had way too little sleep & I'm feeling a bit disconnected because of lack of sleep. If anyone can find me a cure for insomnia, my week will be freaking perfect.

My blog is getting heaps of hits - for a personal blog that amases me. It's such a great outlet for me & some people have found it & written to me saying that they've been encouraged to go back to study or get help which is kind of awesome (http://stethescopesandivlin...)

OMM: How can we make youth health so much more awesome?! I have so many ideas for prevention, intervention & campaigns & I fear not enough time to do it in.

Susan As Well 13 years ago

How exciting for you Ella! Take your enthusiasm and run with it please ... youth health needs committed and passionate nurses like you :)

Just this week I had three youthful patients attempting suicide and I often think of your posts when talking to kids like this. Thank you for sharing and giving us a valuable insight we might not otherwise have. Will have to check out your blog too.

Ella 13 years ago

Aw thank you Susan x

Joey 13 years ago

I used to suffer from insomnia and saw a natropath who prescribed some Bach flower remedy concoction. It worked!

You could always try one straight from the chemist - you can get them over the counter and there is a special one for sleep.

Goodluck!


Charlie's Mama 13 years ago

Best: after coming back from a short trip to see family with hubby and daughter, we have finally made a big dent to our pile of administration tasks.... not finished (never is) but feeling like things are getting sorted and moving along.

Worst: the competition amongst women. I am not very social these days (since having my daughter and moving interstate) and it seems I find "women o women wars" more excruciating than ever. The post about working mums the other day got me furious..... so many women trying to prove (probably to themselves in the end) that they are doing what is right.... I love the concept of discussing sensitive issues but frankly I've had enough of the self-righteousness that seems to come out with blazing glory in these debates.