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Would You Pay This Much to Hug a Stranger?

Cuddling may have started out as a survival instinct, but it has since grown into something you can pay for on the internet. And, in case you are wondering, we are not using "cuddling" as a euphemism for anything.  People pay to just cuddle with one another. And there are usually strict rules to prevent anything beyond from happening. Sad? Maybe. Desperate? Perhaps. But apparently it might be more “normal” than we think.

Cuddle parties first started in 2004. Strangers would meet at a designated place and hold each other for hours. The parties popped up across the country and became known as a safe place for people to go get touch and affection without having pressure to do anything sexual. Think it might be kind of hard to have an intimate moment with 5, 10 or even 20 people at a time?

Well then, perhaps you'd rather have a more private session with Jackie Samuel. She's launched a website, The Snuggery, where people can go to her home to cuddle one on one. Samuel says she started the company because she felt the need to help people who do not have non-sexual touch in their lives.  And, of couse, no good deed should go unpaid. Oh, and there's also the thing where she just really, really likes to cuddle. So, everybody wins!

The FAQ's on her website make for an interesting read:

Q. What should I wear to my first appointment?
A. I recommend loose fitting, natural fiber clothing, but whatever you are most comfortable in is what you should wear. Pajamas are always a good choice.

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Q. Do we meet before we snuggle?
A. Yes, we do meet briefly prior to snuggling in order to make sure that we're both comfortable and that our expectations are compatible.

Q. What if I become sexually aroused during my session?
A. Don't worry, it happens! Although sexual activity is not permitted, arousal is perfectly normal and should not make anyone feel uncomfortable.

Q. Am I supposed to talk during my session?
A. It's really up to you. Although some people find that snuggling makes talking easier, the benefits of snuggling are not dependent on being verbal.

Q. Do clothes/pyjamas always stay on for the duration of our session?
A. Absolutely! Nudity is not permitted.

Q. Are snuggling sessions therapy?
A. Snuggling sessions are not therapy but they can be restorative, rejuvenating, comforting, playful and fun.

It might seem weird to some but the trend is going strong. There might just be a cuddle party coming to a house near you.

Would you ever cuddle a stranger? Would you pay for it?

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