by LAKSHMI NARAYANAN
As a child, I lived in Sydney’s Sutherland Shire, which was (unless you were white, blonde-haired and a good swimmer) a fairly torturous place to grow up.
I’m brown and Indian, in case you were wondering.
The year was 1991 and white Australia was doing its best to avert immigrants. My parents, oblivious, decided it was a good idea to uproot us from our multicultural flat in Campsie to an all-white cul de sac in Beverly Hills (which I’m still convinced is the television set used in Neighbours).
We lived in a small fibro house with a rusty old garage and a hills hoist out the back. My next door neighbour was an eight-year-old girl named Fay. Fay had a freckled face, scrawny legs and blond hair, which had turned green because of the chlorine in her pool. On the first day in our new house, she ran over to our front yard and introduced herself.
“Hi, I’m Fay and I like eating poppadom’s.”
I remember feeling confused yet intrigued by her effort to make a cultural connection.
Later I would realise Fay was quite the character. I remember waking up to the sound of her screechy eight year old voice singing, Tina Arena’s “Chains”. When I went outside to get a closer look, I found her tied to a chair trying to set herself free. Another year, she successfully managed to get Gak stuck in her hair.
When it came time to start school, Fay and I had become firm friends, but alas, we were attending different schools in the neighbourhood, so our friendship was limited to after-hours only.
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I’m Indian and grew up in the shire. It’s the greatest place on earth. I think the problems came from the fact that you’re an outsider. I was never one. Humans fear outsiders, it’s natural instinct. As kids, you don’t like people who are overly different. Try going to the middle of Africa and fitting in at a school there. I hope they don’t make fun of you and are accepting.
This has nothing to do with your difference in skin tone, but most likely your body language and the way you carried yourself or presented yourself. Indians typically aren’t the best at presenting themselves in a way that trends close to the human standard. For example, they don’t speak clear English or smell good 90% of the time. The problem with society and you is the victim status that is assumed to make yourself feel better. Society shouldn’t have to mend itself to accept you. Get over yourself and move on. If someone called me a curry growing up I’d brush it off and make fun of what they were wearing or their features. I couldn’t even read the article in full. I wish you luck to improve yourself and stop taking offense to little things. I agree it would become an issue with physical harm. But you don’t have the right to degrade one of the geographically most beautiful and perfect places on earth because you’re a victim of bullying like everyone else in school. Stop playing the brown card.
This is really surprising....I mean, I was not brought in the Shire, but live in Cronulla now, and have done so for 2 years. I grew up in Concord West and went to Homebush Boys High school, a highly culturally diverse school. I have lived in Tamarama, Strathfield, Burwood, Concord West, Daegu Sth Korea, and London.
I am a 3rd generation non-observant Jew, and my partner is originally from Hong Kong, and my kids from a prior relationship are visibly Eurasian (only say this as one of the points made here was about appearance) as their mum is from Korea.
We were all nervous about moving to the Shire in '14, me more than anyone else (I do look very Anglo/Northern European in decent), but all nervousness was unwarranted. In fact, my partner now works in a professional practice at Cronulla, as a high paid professional, and is surrounded by people born and bred in the Shire, she loves it, and has no issues whatsoever.
People have never teased my kids or made any kind of discriminatory remarks. Whats more, I use to live in Narwee/Beverly Hills prior to Cronulla, there, my kids constantly complained of bullying because of their appearance.
My friends in Cronulla and the Shire are from a very mixed back ground, South African Indians, Brazilians, Peruvians, Chileans, Japanese, and Chinese, not to mention people who identify as Jewish. In addition to this, 1/3 of my friends are LGBT. To be honest, whilst I have lived in far more ethnically diverse locations, never have I had such a diverse mix of friends and associates, in the area I live.
So my point is this. The Shire get's a totally unfair wrap, and it irks me. I am not limiting any of the bad experiences described here, but I would say, times have changed, and furthermore, any other area in any other highly ethnically homogenised (that is one overiding majority of one culture) would have resulted in the same experiences, this is totally unacceptable to happen anywhere period, but the fact it was the Shire I believe is a misnomer. The fact that most kids wore surf brands is on account of the location to the beach....not much else. If you live near a bunch of basketball courts, chances are kids will gravitate to basketball attire. Btw the winner of the international surfing competition at Shark Island Cronulla, was an Asian Australian, AND A LOCAL BORN AND BRED!
So, please understand, whilst the Shire is probably (I can't say for certain, nor does it matter unless you are a racist) the most Anglo/Celtic/Northern European Christian areas of culturally diverse Sydney, my families experience is one of TOTAL inclusion, never any racism, and complete ease with dealing with the locals. And my experience, and I think that of most today, is far far different from the one described here.
Incidentally, the riots were at least 95% from outside the Shire, and any locals involved are to this day on the cultural fringes and virtually excommunicated from the community.
Come to the Shire, you will be welcomed.