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laura__palmer May 5, 2024

This sort of stuff should mean instant expulsion. That is the only way that the message will get through. Men and boys, you will lose something if you act like this

laura__palmer May 5, 2024

@freepalestine Exactly. Where are the men? They love to sprout unhelpful things like "not all men", but where are they when their voices are actually needed to speak out about men's violence, aggression and entitlement? 

laura__palmer May 5, 2024

@yeahyepyes I think it's better for men to not tell women how to feel about women being killed by men. It doesn't matter if things were "better" in the past, women are still being killed by men, one every four days, which is more than last year. What "we" are doing is not having a positive impact, obviously, if things are just slightly better than they were a few decades ago. 
What are you, as a man, doing to combat male violence and entitlement? Other than coming on here and telling women how they should feel, rather than taking a step back and listening? 

laura__palmer May 3, 2024

She has no obligation to be kind to him, he invaded her life. I hope he thinks twice before doing it again.  Probably not though. This is why women are picking bear. 

laura__palmer May 3, 2024

@yeahyepyes can you not? I know you’re a man and I think you need to stop talking and start listening. I am so sick of men chiming in with unhelpful comments like this, and if you think you’re helping, I’ve got news for you. You are part of the problem. Domestic violence is deeply entrenched in Australian culture and while deaths might be less today, women are still being hurt and killed at alarming rates. 

Nothing is going to change while men like you troll websites like this, undermining women’s lived experiences. 
What is described in this article is appalling and it’s just not on at all to make any kind of excuse for it. I was speaking from my own experience as a teenager at school, and boys sound much more emboldened than when I was at school. So please, do us all a favour and stop chiming in with completely unhelpful comments and ask yourself, why are you even on this website. 

laura__palmer May 2, 2024

@llamamia They have lost skills though. That is the reality. The longer you spend out of work, the less employable you become. Parenting is not a job, time management as a parent is not a job skill. 

laura__palmer May 2, 2024

@m.g.e "but there needs to also be support for those who want to be able to stay home and raise their own young children." Why? Why should tax payers fund your lifestyle and to stay at home with your own children? 

laura__palmer May 1, 2024

Yes! Thank you! This is what women need from men. Men who are willing to listen and acknowledge, not tell us what to think or what they think women should be doing.

I'm really impressed that a young man can have such intelligence and empathy and has made himself productively active in this space. 

laura__palmer April 30, 2024

So just a whole lot of bandaids, then? 

laura__palmer April 30, 2024

@yeahyepyes can you not? I know you’re a man and I think you need to stop talking and start listening. I am so sick of men chiming in with unhelpful comments like this, and if you think you’re helping, I’ve got news for you. You are part of the problem. Domestic violence is deeply entrenched in Australian culture and while deaths might be less today, women are still being hurt and killed at alarming rates. 

Nothing is going to change while men like you troll websites like this, undermining women’s lived experiences. 
What is described in this article is appalling and it’s just not on at all to make any kind of excuse for it. I was speaking from my own experience as a teenager at school, and boys sound much more emboldened than when I was at school. So please, do us all a favour and stop chiming in with completely unhelpful comments and ask yourself, why are you even on this website. 

laura__palmer April 30, 2024

I was getting asked by boys to make them a sandwich in the 90s. Very sad to see that absolutely nothing has changed. Sounds like it has gotten worse

laura__palmer April 30, 2024

@bridget_elise just a stylish winter coat lined with wool. I'm quite warm enough with that. At the moment, I'm getting away with just a hoody. The mornings where I am up in the North-East have been quite mild. 

Are you in the North? Did you get to experience the winter wonderland snow fall a few years back in Launceston? That was puffer jacket weather!!


laura__palmer April 30, 2024

@vgmamamia Women do the work. Men do not. It is men who need to be stepping up.

laura__palmer April 30, 2024

The law needs to change so that a man who does this to a woman is remanded in custody without bail and, on conviction, given a mandatory custodial sentence and an ankle bracelet on release. And mandatory counselling so that he can work on his issues. 

laura__palmer April 30, 2024

@yeahyepyes it serves everyone for the laws to be changed so that violent men who breach AVOs are given a mandatory custodial sentence and electronic monitoring upon release. 

laura__palmer April 29, 2024

@yeahyepyes are you a man?

laura__palmer April 28, 2024

@gloried I live in Tasmania and I agree about the puffer jackets! It's not even cold enough down here to warrant such an ugly item of clothing!

laura__palmer April 28, 2024

@anonymous absolutely. Enough of this pussy footing around the truth and the facts to protect men's feelings. Men are violent. Men commit most of the violent crime. This is a problem with men that can only be solved by men. 

laura__palmer April 28, 2024

Well, you can get bear sprays and horns, I've watched Alone. I'm picking a bear. 

laura__palmer April 28, 2024

Although it was encouraging to see lots of men participating, there still wasn't enough male involvement in what is, essentially, a problem with men and violence. 

Also, what the hell Albanese? Just derail the whole thing. Poor Sarah, how distressing. I'm glad she called him out. Men need to do waaaaay better than this, especially men in power. What a gross display of incompetence when it comes to this issue