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Another week, another woman dies as a result of domestic violence. We will not stay silent.

Trigger warning: This post deals with family violence and may be triggering for some readers.

Another incident of domestic violence. Another woman dead at the hands of her husband, 58-year old Haydar Haydar who has been charged with murder.

Last night, police scrambled to save the life of 45-year-old Salwa Haydar, at a residential address in Bexley, South Sydney.

The mother of four should’ve been spending an evening at home with her children. Instead, she suffered fatal stab wounds and was declared dead at the scene by police who were alerted to the incident just minutes earlier.

The couple’s 18-year-old daughter was discovered close by with severe injuries to her hands and was taken to St George Hospital for treatment.

Read the full story here: Man charged over stabbing death of his wife in Sydney.

It is not the first time the family has been struck by tragedy, Ms Haydar’s mother was killed in 2006 as she tried to escape her village in Lebanon.

ABC News reports that Ms Haydar’s mother’s car was hit by an Israeli shell — her daughter heard the news in Sydney via Al Jazeera television.

“And they said one of the people that killed was my Mum, and they said her name and I just went in shock,” she told ABC’s Lateline program at the time.

She has lived in Australia for nearly 30 years.

Police described the incident as a “violent attack” with “multiple injuries”.

“As you can imagine with the knife wound, it’s disturbing,” Superintendent Donahue said.

The details of this complex case are sketchy at this early stage – but one thing remains clear: domestic violence cases are increasing at an unacceptable rate.

We know it’s uncomfortable reading.

We know it makes you feel helpless, because it makes us feel helpless too.

But we cannot and importantly – will not –  sit quietly and allow our mothers, our daughters, our sisters to be murdered, while we sit and say nothing.

Keep reading: This is one of the most powerful domestic violence campaigns we’ve ever seen.

So far this year 17 women have been murdered men they loved and trusted. Men they’ve had children with. Ponder that for a moment… because it’s only March. How many more lives will we lose this year, before we see real, tangible change? How much longer before we see funds injected into the social services (safe shelters, financial/legal assistance and support for children) that are integral to help protect these women?

Domestic violence has killed two women per week this year in Australia. These are just some of the victims (post continues after gallery):

As previously reported, a 30 million-dollar ‘awareness’ campaign promised by Prime Minister Tony Abbott  isn’t enough.

More on this: Tony Abbott wants to raise family violence “awareness”… while cutting funding for support services.

We’re all aware, Prime Minister Abbott. We’re very aware. And we don’t need a glossy campaign to tell us this is a problem.

According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, one in six women has been a victim of violence by a current or former intimate partner.

Homicides committed by an intimate partner account for one fifth of all homicides in Australia.

And right now, every week, we lose two precious women to family violence.

We will continue to campaign on behalf of those women who can’t. We vow to document and report every single incident, because this must stop and it must stop now.

If this post brings up any issues for you, or if you just feel like you need to speak to someone, please call 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) – the national sexual assault, domestic and family violence counselling service. It doesn’t matter where you live, they will take your call and, if need be, refer you to a service closer to home.

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mAmira Talbot 9 years ago

We need more safe houses for women and children, under no circumstance should they be turned away -this is why
A Sydney hairdresser who was fatally stabbed with a pair of scissors was turned away numerous times from women’s refuge centres as she attempted to flee her estranged husband, according to her sister.

Leila Alavi, 26, had taken an apprehended violence order (AVO) out against her ex-partner Mokhtar Hosseiniamraei when he allegedly stabbed her in the car park of the Auburn shopping centre complex where she worked in January.

The 33-year-old had requested she come and meet him.

Mitra Alavi said her sister had moved in with her at a Waterloo unit after failing to find a refuge that could take her in, The Sydney Morning Herald has reported.

“Eight months before she died she come to my place and told me, ‘I can’t live with Mohktar because he is punching me and it is scary’,” Ms Alavi said.

“Three or four times she go with me and many times she rang these places [refuges], and they say, ‘we have no room.’”

At the time she was searching for a centre to take her in, up to 80 women’s shelters were in limbo in NSW due to the state government’s homelessness reform program.

A spokeswoman for the advocacy group, SOS Women’s Services, said the system had let Leila down.

“If she had been able to get into a refuge, she would have had a much stronger chance of surviving the violence,” Roxanna McMurray said.

NSW Minister for Justice Brad Hazzard said the case was “disturbing”.

“At a time when domestic violence seems to be, at least on a reported basis, the highest it has ever been, we have to get this absolutely right,” he said.

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mAmira Talbot 9 years ago

FATAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INCIDENTS SINCE JANUARY 1, 2015:
There have been 17 cases so far too Date

- Jan 17

Sydney hairdresser Leila Alavi is stabbed to death, allegedly by her estranged husband Mokhtar Hosseiniamraei. The 26-year-old's body was found in a car in an underground car park near her workplace.

- Jan 20

Renee Carter and Corey Croft are stabbed to death at a Gold Coast home, allegedly by Ms Carter's former partner Christopher Robert Carter. The slain couple's five-year-old son was home when the killings took place and told neighbours he found their bodies.

- Jan 25

A 50-year-old woman is murdered by her partner at a house in Dianella, in Perth's northern suburbs. Police say the man killed the woman before taking his own life.

- Feb 2

Pregnant Gold Coast woman Fabiana Palhares, 34, dies from massive head injuries after she was allegedly attacked by her former partner Brock Wall, who has been charged with murder. She was reportedly attacked with a small axe.

- Feb 7

Mother of two Adelle Collins, 39, is found stabbed to death at her home at Ningi, near Bribie Island, north of Brisbane. Her former partner Steven Storie has been charged with murder.

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