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"Motherhood is not an excuse to retire."

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Things you will learn watching the documentary The Will To Fly. about Australian Olympian Lydia Lassila:

  • When someone tears their ACL (the main ligament in your knee), they make a noise almost exactly like a squealing pig. It’s not a sound you want to hear again.
  • Freestyle aerial skiing is absolutely terrifying. And incredibly difficult.
  • When you are an elite athlete, little things like pregnancy, childbirth and child-rearing do NOT throw you off, even though no-one believes that but you.

Freestyle aerial skiers are the ones who ski down an enormous jump and then somersault through the air until they land, hopefully on their feet. The training to get really, really good at it takes you overseas for half the year, where you practice on enormous water slides. Then it takes you to far-flung, icy corners of the world chasing snow where you hone your craft.

It looks like this:

“When I first started the sport I just wanted to be the best female areal skier that ever lived, and I wanted to jump like the men,” says Lydia.

Her first year competing included the 2002 Salt Lake City Winter Olympics. She placed 8th in the world. A year later she was number two.

“I got good fast not because I was talented, but because I was willing to go that distance – it’s like I had a diesel engine.”

Then, at the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver she won gold.

And then… she had a baby.

How does it feel to go through labour when your job involves you risking your life daily? When your career has already seen you smash bones and tear muscles and claw your way back to competition level after being unable to walk?

Let Lydia tell you:

It feels… like it feels for all of us.

“I thought, having a baby, ‘I’ve got this… I’ve had four major knee surgeries, I’ve endured quite a lot… I’ve got this’,” says Lydia. “But… it just went to another level. It makes knee reconstructions a walk in the park.”

“People were constantly telling me life is going to change, you might feel different – and I thought yeah, fair enough, but I wanted to give it a good crack. We had a good support network so I could go back to training, like a lot of women going to work.”

Lydia went back to work – training for the 2014 Sochi Winter Olympics. She started at the gym with Kai in tow, crawling around the treadmill and then working up to practising on snow, over and over, with her little boy watching her fall. It’s incredible to watch.

But not just content with going “back to work”, Lydia started working on a jump that no woman had ever done before: the quad twisting, triple somersault – Lydia calls it the “full-double-full-full”.

 

Did it pay off? You’re going to have to watch the movie (or, you know, Google it) to find out. But let’s just say, when Lydia’s standing on the medal dias with one other mum, you’ll feel like cheering.

Lydia has since gone on to have another son, Alec, and hasn’t ruled out the 2018 Winter Olympics.

“I haven’t retired yet – most people think that when you have a baby it’s retirement…but I don’t see motherhood as a good excuse to retire.”

Listen to the full interview with Lydia here:

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Learn more about Lydia’s film The Will to Fly here, and find out where you can watch it here.

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Top Comments

Tracey M 8 years ago

Typical headline takes her statement out of context!! I thought she was having a go at mums who choose to "stay at home". BUT she actually was saying it wasn't something that made her decide to retire from her sport!!

GO Llydia.


Boccos 8 years ago

Oh yes it is. The most important thing a mother can do is raise a well balanced child. In my opinion , if this means immediately retiring until the child is self -sufficient then that is good science and worth more than anything wealth could provide.

workingmum 8 years ago

No it is not. You CAN have a career and a family, and that is in no way shape or form creating 'unbalanced' children. In fact, it shows them that life is not free and if you want something, you have to go and work for it. This is actually the best quote I have ever seen - "motherhood is not an excuse to retire" - PERFECT.

Hm 8 years ago

Imagine if her children are well balanced watching their mother fulfilling her dreams before she's too old to compete. Crazy thought. Oh and it's not just up to the mother - the father has a role too. Where's the call for him to retire?

Ineedacoffee 8 years ago

Wrong
First up, why dont men need to retire?
Second, a mothr is still a person with thoughts and feelings, dreams and desires
There is no greater lesson to your kids than teaching and showing them to chase their dreams, that anything is possible

Kimbo 8 years ago

Some people don't even work to create 'wealth' - some people work to 'survive' and therefore raise a well balanced child!