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Barbara convinced an entire town that she was pregnant with quintuplets.

When Paul Servat met Barbara Bienvenue through an online dating site, he thought it was love.

So when she announced she was pregnant one month into their relationship, he was thrilled.

The couple happily told family and friends the wonderful news – they were expecting twins.

However, several weeks later Barbara told Paul that it was actually triplets, then she said it was quadruplets.

And strangely then the story changed to quintuplets after she announced that on her last ultrasound they found one more baby.

They set up a Facebook page so friends and family could donate clothing and baby goods.

The whole town of Saint-Jean-sur-Richelieu in Quebec was excited for them, with front-page articles appearing in the local paper and the community rallying around the unusual pregnancy.

Photos of the donations which poured in appeared on their Facebook page. A range of beautiful baby beanies and home-made knitted blankets. Their nursery set up at home with five bassinets was ready and waiting for the new babies to come home.

But when Barbara was at 34 weeks, things took a turn you could never have imagined.

Paul took Barbara to hospital, expecting his partner to give birth. That’s when he was taken aside by a nurse.

It was a hoax he was told. His partner was not – and had never been – pregnant.

 

The Daily Mail reports that a post on the ‘Les Quadruplets de St-Jean’ Facebook page speaks of Paul’s devastation.

“This morning, Paul arrived at the hospital believing that he would finally see his four babies and instead there was a team of doctors who waited and did a blood test and told the news to Paul. He is completely torn, he not only lost someone he had fallen in love with but 4 babies who were his reason to live.”

A local woman Geneviève Laflamme, herself a mother of triplets, became friends with Barbara in order to help her navigate the terrifying prospect of life with multiples.

But she began to see through Barbara’s claim to be pregnant.

Laflamme says a week before Barbara’s purported due date, Barbara told her she had undergone another ultrasound that revealed there were actually five babies inside her.

Something didn’t add up.

According to the Toronto Sun, Barbara Bienvenue was taken into psychiatric care last Tuesday, with claims that it was in fact a phantom pregnancy.

The phenomenon of a phantom pregnancy, or pseudocyesis, is rare – but it does happen.

Dr. Haim Abenhaim, an obstetrician and gynaecologist at Montreal’s Jewish General Hospital, told CTV News that there are two types of phantom pregnancies documented in medical literature.

One type of pseudocyesis occurs when there are physical pregnancy signs, such as missed periods, morning sickness and extension of the abdomen, but no actual pregnancy. The other condition is called delusional pregnancy in which a patient truly believes she is pregnant but is not.

The story has made headlines across Canada, and disturbingly friends and ex-boyfriends of Barbara have come forward saying that she has done this before.

“This isn’t the first time she’s done it,” a male relative told QMI. “But honestly, we never would have thought she was sick enough to do it again.”

According to the Toronto Sun, she had previously faked cancers and tricked her ex-partners into believing she was pregnant.

The newspaper reports, “Bienvenue once pretended she had leukemia and had often claimed to suffer afflictions, including heart problems.”

A previous boyfriend, who also did not want to be named for fear of reprisal, said Bienvenue once told him that she had twins, and he alleges she “took extreme measures to raise money for the non-existent children”.

For Paul Servat, the whole situation is devastating. He has pledged to return every item donated through the Facebook page and has apologised to the town that took him under their wing.

He is mourning the loss of his babies and the woman he thought he knew and loved.

Meanwhile, Barbara Bienvenue is undergoing psychiatric treatment.

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christy 9 years ago

100 staff and the best you can offer is a story a year old. I rarely come here now and this is why.


katherine 9 years ago

How do you not go to any Dr. Appointment it was irresponsible of him. If he would had mad sure to at least make time for one earlier he would had realized she was taking it sooner. With a multiple pregnancy Five babies you make time and go. In a real pregnancy so many complications can arrise . It's the partners responsibility to listen to the Dr so at least he can be informed and help.Even if she would had said no ,it was his job to say nope I am gonna be thier too. Why not?

MummaZzzzz 9 years ago

She probably would have scammed the appointment schedule as well. Picture it... hubby prob went on a biz trip or had an important day at work. ... "oh honey Dr BigLiyarrrr called and reminded me the appt was today so i went to see him, oh I'm so sorry I must have got the date wrong but everything is going great!!" Etc etc. The narcissist will not back down and will not be defeated - she had everyone fooled (well mostly) but they do often slip up. The rare empaths will catch it and start to question things. The apaths will be swinging alongside the abuser like a fan club.. but have no idea its abuse. They're pretty amazing at their craft! I bet u know a few ppl with npd (and/or associated illnesses) but u may not know it 😯 btw. This father-to-be was a first time dad. He wasn't to know the process. She would have bamboozled the poor guy!!!! Who knows.. she could have been completely psycho and threatened him in many ways, she could have been screaming at him every day, or done the passive aggressive, or may have forced him to work 2 or 3 jobs for more $$ so he didn't have time to think or be human!! Have u ever heard of the 'Abuse Wheel' I think it's called. Terrifying. Look it up..... uggghhhh so so sad but so real x

KimBo 9 years ago

My husband didn't attend any of my doctors appointments, he was at WORK!! He didn't get to any of my scans either, guess what he was at WORK!! Most of my appointments were just before I started work or even in lunch hours - we couldn't coordinate because we couldn't! I'm not defending this woman but seriously sometimes it's just not possible or logical for everyone to do what you say should happen.