My daughter just celebrated her ninth birthday. Her party was at a tie-dye shop where she and her friends twisted and coloured pillowcases, shoelaces, tees and socks, giggling their way through the party until cake time – a 30cm buttercream-covered llama cake with rainbow swirl insides.
She was delighted. But how lucky are kids these days? My party at her age might have consisted of playing musical statues in the lounge room followed by chocolate ripple cake stacked together the night before with whipped cream and a pack of choccy biscuits.
School for her is also full of stark differences (pandemic interruptions notwithstanding). My primary school in the '80s (*gulp*) had two computers that were shared by the whole school and wheeled by trolley to the class who had booked an afternoon of ‘info tech’.
My daughter packs a laptop into her schoolbag every morning. It sits alongside her lunchbox, which might consist of sushi rolls, baby spinach and cream cheese wraps or a Greek yoghurt pouch. I had a Vegemite sandwich, apple, and a muesli bar every day and slugged it out in a portable classroom with no air con.
There is no doubt times have changed, and mostly for the better.
But as my kids grow older, I realise that some things don't.
Take visits to the zoo, for example. This is an experience I love to share with my children, just as my parents did with me. The love and respect for animals is the same across each generation and the joy of visiting Taronga Zoo never wanes, no matter how ‘grown up’ you get.