Have I mentioned I’m obsessed with Michelle Duggar? She is the lady in this picture, currently pregnant with her 19th child. This photo was taken when she ONLY had 14 kids. SHE’S HAD 4 MORE SINCE THEN and is pregnant again because it is, as she and her husband say, God’s will. I love the caption on this photo – if you can’t read it it says “Vagina: It’s Not A Clown Car” (although it’s not written by Michelle who does not strike me as a vagina-joking kind of gal).
Vaginas are not clown cars. Indeedy.
So while Michelle and her husband continue to pump out more people as, well, a clown car, the rest of us are not so sure. When announcing her much-wanted third pregnancy recently, Sarah Murdoch commented that this pregnancy may not be her last and that “I don’t know how people stop having babies”.
Some nights? Around 1am, 2am, 3am, 4am or 5am? I think I know. And then other times, I don’t. Other times I want to have a million babies. Hello hormones.
Like when I was at my school reunion and one girl brought her newborn and it was all I could do to stop myself going over and having a big sniff. OH THE SMELL OF A NEWBORN. It is my crack.
In the past few years, I’ve become fascinated with the following question: when it comes to having babies, how do you know when you’re done?
One friend answered like this: “Today, I’m not done. My three year old slept the entire night, dressed herself this morning, ate a good breakfast and didn’t howl when I dropped her at creche. But on other days, she tries to crawl into my bed four times during the night, then in the morning she refuses to get dressed, eats no breakfast, demands rainbow paddle pops and ends up being dropped at crèche in her pyjamas looking like something DOCS should investigate. On those mornings? I’m done.”
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I have a boy then a girl. If I had had a second boy I would have had a third. I like the fact we've only had two, especially when they were little. I like being able to go out for dinner, visit friends, go away and only have two extras to worry about. I really got sick of being interrupted and never having time to myself. Also, I like my girlfriends and I like going out with them. That Michelle Duggan - how on earth does she do it? She mustn't have any friends. I don't know how you can live your whole like inside a house and not have a break. And what about getting them dressed and organised in the morning? And cooking for 20 people every day? It's a form of insanity.
Just two. For environmental reasons. There's already enough damned people on this planet. We're just going to replace ourselves, no more.