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Last week Egypt. This week Libya? Libyan security forces are firing  indiscriminately into crowds protesting against the regime of Libyan leader, Muammar Gaddafi. and Gaddafi’s son Saif al-Gaddafi is warning that Libya is on the the verge of civil war.  The Australian reports

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Muammar Al Gaddafi

The son of Libyan leader Muammar Gadaffi says the country is on the verge of civil was as protesters seized control of some military bases and tankes

Appearing on Libyan state television, Seif al-Islam Gaddafi branded the protests as a foreign plot, blaming Arab and African expatriates of fomenting unrest in the country.

He said the violence was aimed at installing Islamist rule, and pledged a new constitution with liberal laws in a bid to appease protesters.

In the tough-talking, finger-wagging speech, Gaddafi’s son blamed foreign media of inflating the death toll but warned that any uprising would be ruthlessly suppressed.

“Libya is not Egypt, it is not Tunisia. There are no political parties in Libya,” he said.

“We will take up arms… we will fight to the last minute, until the last bullet,” he said. “We will destroy seditious elements.

Kirsty Rice, popular blogger and Mamamia contributor used to live in Libya, she writes:

“When running through our geographical resume, it’s always the same country that evokes the most interest. When people ask where we were before Qatar, it’s the same spiel “we moved to Perth, then Jakarta, then Kuala Lumpur then Libya…” this is when the conversation is always interrupted with a piqued interest, “Libya, what was THAT like?”

I think all expats leave a piece of their heart in each of their locations, you can’t help it. We look back and remember the milestones, the birthdays, the corner store, the time the pipe burst and boiling water was shooting out of the wall, the time the enormous rat casually walked past us on its way to its fully furnished home inside our clothes dryer pipe. We think of the house that became a home, seeds that were planted in a garden. Did they grow? We think of the people we left behind. The teary goodbyes. The final trip to the airport.

When you arrive in Libya, it’s highly likely the first thing you will see is Gaddafi.  He’s on billboards,  murals, photographs, he is absolutely everywhere. It’s law that he appear in every shop at every reception desk. He’s looking down at you from every corner, he watches you pay for your groceries, go to the bank, drink a coffee. There’s no doubt on who’s running the show. With a timeline of over 40 years  there is a huge variety of ages and stages. The early years, just after the bloodless coup of King Idris in 1969, show an extremely handsome Gadaffi, he’s thin, usually in uniform with aviator glasses, it’s his time as the Colonel. He stands out in a crowd of his peers, I can see how he convinced his fellow coup participants that he should be the team captain.

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Libya

As the pictures continue through time it’s a different story, he starts to add a few kilos, the uniform disappears, along come the costumes, my personal favourite is the camouflage safari suit with matching hat. The hair is questionably real, it’s long, as are his jowls. He’s highly conscious of the jowls, speak to anyone who has shared a room with Gaddafi and they’ll tell you how he quickly he can find a camera pointed in his direction, he’ll often turn his chin sideways and towards the sky for a better shot, giving you his ‘best angle’.

When people think of Libya they usually think of the headlines, The Berlin bombing, the subsequent attack by Reagan, Lockerbie, US embargoes, a home for a hiding terrorist, the occasional weapon of mass destruction. They’re all part of Gadaffi’s repertoire.

It wasn’t the Libya I experienced.The Libya I experienced was a school bus driver who would notice my child had fallen asleep on the trip home and insist on carrying her inside to the couch. It was a the man at the corner shop who gave our children free sweets on every visit and chased my parents half way down the street because they had forgotten their 5 cents in change. It is the people at the Medina who didn’t know me at all, but when I didn’t have enough money to pay for something said “just bring it next time you come”, they never questioned that they didn’t have my address or phone number.

Then there’s the untold stories of those people. The stories that are whispered and only shared after true friendships have been made. The School bus driver didn’t see his father for 14 years, he went to work one morning and never came back. After 14 years when they told him he could go home, he wasn’t given a reason for either the arrest or the release.  The man at the corner store, he too was waiting patiently to see members of his family that had disappeared. When I asked why they were in jail, I was told “They said too much”.

You have to acquire patience when moving to Libya. The power goes out, the phone stops working, the internet is a distant memory. Just remain patient, try not to think too much about it. Don’t start asking questions. Don’t start doing the math. Don’t think about the fact that Libya has huge oil reserves. Don’t make the comparisons, that Libya has more oil than any other country in Africa, more oil than the US or China.

Don’t think about the fact that Libya has serious wealth.

So why are there potholes all over the road? Where are the street lights?  Why does every building look like it needs a new coat of paint?

Why is it such a mess? Where’s the infrastructure?  Where has the money gone?

How long will you be patient?

When I look around Qatar I can’t help but think about how Libya might have been. Qatar is a country rich in resources and full of promise for its people. Universities have been built, there are Film Festivals, Museums, world class sporting venues, cultural villages, TED events, conferences. Major sporting events have been held and there’s more to come. Sure, there’s been hiccups and I’m sure they’ll be more, but there is no denying that Qatar is developing at a rapid speed.

In the past 24 hours I’ve been unable to contact friends in Libya. It’s been reported that Facebook and Twitter have been shut down. It appears that no one is entirely sure of Gadaffi’s plans or how far the protesters have traveled.  Gadaffi has never been a fan of the press and it’s not often they get invited for a visit. You can hear the frustration in the voices of those at Al Jazeera and the BBC as they speak to yet another person who shoots at them over the phone. We wait for the next update. Patiently.”

For live updates on  anti-government protests  in Libya click here

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28 Comments so far

  1. Meerkath

    Thanks for a great article, a timely reminder that we shouldnt always judge a people by their leader. The warmth of the Libyan people is what stood out for me in that article, despite rules of living in fear under Gaddafis rule. Thank you x

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  2. Goldie

    Very interesting piece Kirsty- would love to hear more.

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  3. Jeannie

    Love love love the insight, thanks so much. I’m watching the unfolding events with fascination.

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  4. Cricket22

    Thanks for the article which has given me a good insight into Libya. I will feel more comfortable reading the (limited) news coverage it is receiving. Off to abc/BBC/sbs websites for more info!

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  5. Lucy Mackey

    Very interesting and well written. Happy reader hoping there is hope of a better tomorrow for Libya x

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  6. Free

    Thanks for this article — it puts so much in perspective. I really hope the Libyan people are able to break free from this dictatorship, as peacefully as is possible.

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    • Kirsty Rice

      I hope so as well. Imagine being Libyan right now, watching your “Leader” bring in African Militia, hired as thugs with permission to kill? I’m not sure how you become so deluded to think its okay to kill your own people. Definitely too much Botox to the brain!

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  7. AdventureMum

    Thanks for that really interesting piece. My best friend’s husband was born in Lebanon and I’m always amazed at how it surprises me that life is so ‘normal’ over there. I guess I have this impression of middle eastern countries being a certain way – and of course there are stark differences to Australia – but ultimately we’re the same people, aren’t we.

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  8. Eva*

    Fascinating piece. Somebody said that fall of the Egyptian government was the “Berlin Wall” for the Middle East. I seriously hope so.
    On a different note, isn’t it interesting that an article on AFL sex scandals seems to have attracted a lot more interest than this one?

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    • Kirsty Rice

      I was just thinking the same thing Eva! Maybe people just feel more comfortable commenting on the sex scandal? Or do we just not care? Maybe I should have mentioned tampons??

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  9. PixieM

    Kirsty, that was a great piece….it is not every day that you hear from someone who has lived ‘on the inside’ of a country like this.

    My partner works in Abu Dhabi and, like Quatar, you can see where the money is going and what a proud and progressive Emirate they are…..which is not to say that there aren’t issues – because there are many – but they are making a serious effort to address them.

    We are hoping to visit Iran towards the end of the year. I believe that I will probably have a similar experience – albeit much shorter! – to what you had in Libya: the people are NOT the government. This is what I have found so far in my middle eastern adventures and this is what I expect I will continue to find.

    Recent developments are deliriously exciting but also incredibly anxiety provoking. That these gentle people may be brutally treated in the course of finding their voice devastates me. I am praying for good outcomes.

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    • Kirsty Rice

      Thank you. Do you have room in your suitcase for a carpet? They have beautiful Iranian carpets here at the Souk but they are very expensive, I bet you could get a bargain when you’re there. Listen to me, can you tell I have carpet envy? My husband has been to Iran a few times, it sounds quite diverse in it’s landscape, snow and skiing in the winter wasn’t how I pictured Iran at all.

      Thanks again for your comments

      Kirsty

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  10. Mish

    Admittedly I don’t know much about Libya, but my new partner is Israeli and I have learned so much from him about the Middle East… I will never take living in Australia for granted again. Thanks for an excellent piece.

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  11. Clairebear

    Kirsty, thanks for giving me some insight into something I shamefully knew next to nothing about – great piece.

    This is truly scary and puts into perspective the political situation we enjoy in Australia. It really saddens me that issues like this receive such comparatively little airtime in the media.

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  12. mere male

    How sad. This is just the start. There will never be peace and security in the Middle East. Not in my lifetime, at least. I hope, in yours………

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  13. Alana

    Thanks Kirsty. I’m fascinated by what life is like in the Middle East and how the region is undergoing such a transformation as of late. I’d like to hear more in the near future if possible.

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    • Kirsty Rice

      Thank you. Will try and think of some other “Middle Eastern” topics.

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  14. AT

    Excellent piece

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  15. memoriesbydenyse

    Woah, I must apologize for not keeping myself in tuned with this happening..and thanks Kirsty for helping me see more into the situation than I would have by getting the news in other ways.
    Thanks Mia for putting the post up for such a news-worthy and ever changing situation.
    Oh Kirsty, a broken foot doesnt stop you blogging, emailing and phoning…awesome woman, thanks XX

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  16. Kylie L

    Kirsty, when I read your blog earlier today I thought “This should be on MamaMia”. Nearly went back to add that to my comment, but very glad to see it has been picked up so quickly anyway- it’s a great and very ‘human’ piece. Now, if only Mia would read my thoughts re a nude George Clooney post so swiftly…

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    • Kirsty Rice

      The site manager at MM is really on the ball (even through sugar depravation). I agree with the George Clooney situation, I love that my children still get confused between George Washington and George Clooney. I haven’t corrected them as I’m happy for George’s name to come up in conversation as much as possible. “George Clooney was the first President of the United States”.

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      • Kylie L

        PMSL! But PLEASE don’t let them confuse him for George Bush!

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  17. zoemirai

    I used to be a resident in Libya and i loved the place and people. It saddens me to see the death toll rise as the people try to fight for freedom and democracy.

    I now live in Bahrain and have done so for 6 years. Things have been in turmoil here too with military in the streets and people being killed for trying to protest and have their voice heard.
    I was at the protest site yesterday and all seemed calm. People with flags requesting peace & freedom and giving the peace sign as we passed. A much nicer scene compared to the footage of unarmed protestors being shot at on Friday.

    I am following the news in Libya closely and hope the killing stops very soon and a peaceful way forward can be found.

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    • Kirsty Rice

      Libya is a naturally beautiful place isn’t it. One of my favourite places in the world is the Roman ruins at Sabratha. Looking out over the Mediterranean, it’s just such a stunning place. I really hope to go back (although after this post they may not let me).

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      • Anonymous

        It is gorgeous. Sabratha and Leptis Magna just amazed me.I had travelled to quite a few places and have always had an interest in historical sites but these were the most complete I have ever experienced. Not to mention the gorgeous blue Mediterranean laid out mostly undeveloped for miles before you, and the middle Eastern/African mix of bizarre objects at the souq! I miss the hospitality and friendliness of the people most. Thank you for your post.

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        • Zoemirai

          Above post was mine. Forgot to add name as on work computer and it wasnt saved!

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  18. MaryV

    Thanks for this insight into Libya. I have travelled in the Middle East and have found the average person friendly and easy going. I don’t think Gadaffi will give up power without one hell of a fight.

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    • Anonymous

      I agree. It’s interesting he chose the son that he did to come out and speak on his behalf. Saif is considered the most conservative of them all, but even he said he would “fight until the end”.

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