Do You Like This Story?
Sue+Brenna+Harding+and+Debbie+Ashleigh+Cummings+get+caught+writing+the+answers+on+their+legs+ 380x235 Who do you relate to in Puberty Blues?

This post is sponsored by Ten.

By KATE HUNTER

Did you watch last night? I did, and I felt the sunny sky blue of early puberty becoming darker – a good thing. There’s only so far reminiscing about Chiko rolls and phones plugged into the walls can you – this episode was all about characters. Which one do you identify with most?

Debbie’s passport into the Greenhills gang arrived last night in the shape of hairy, monosyllabic surfer Bruce Board. Apparently, he’s a super spunk. REALLY? AM I THAT OLD? Was I the only one screaming, ‘Nooooooo! Ewwwww! Doooon’t! He needs a shower and a HAIRCUT.’

Of course, the most attractive thing to Debbie isn’t Bruce himself, but the mere fact he wanted to ‘go round with her’. Having a boyfriend meant instant respect. Just not from the boys. When Debbie watches a couple of the Greenhill crew on the beach, she sees what’s expected of a girl ‘goin’ round’ with a surfer.

My aversion to the blossoming romance (if you can call it that) between Bruce and Debbie probably explains why the character I most relate to is Debbie’s mum, Judy Vickers. This realisation is depressing. I’m so far from being a teenager. But it’s also reassuring – I like Karvan’s Judy a lot; she’s smart, kind and tries hard to stay close to her kids. Not so much her husband Martin, who’s emerging as an odd fish – not least because he’s more comfortable with fish than people.

Sue’s parents Pam and Roger Knight are as loose as Martin is uptight. In the seventies, parents of teenagers were often young – in their mid thirties – so parental games of strip jack naked, fuelled by Harvey wallbangers happened more than we’d like to imagine. What went on in the backs of panel vans was probably tame in comparison.

One of my favourites is Yvonne Henessey – Gary’s mum, and wife of philandering, Stag-driving Ferris. There’s a lot going on behind Yvonne’s devoted façade – the killer backhand gives us a hint. Just quietly, I hope she smashes her Slazenger across the back of Ferris’s neck.

Then there’s Cheryl – chief mean girl. Cheryl has a baby brother and a hardworking single mother – he toughens and softens her at the same time. Finally, how fantastic is Debbie’s little brother David? He’s peripheral but pivotal, asking, ‘Why does everyone hate talking about sex?’ It’s such a brilliant line, because although no one’s talking about it, they’re either planning it, doing it, or in the case of David’s dad – wishing he was doing it.

TEN 380x380 Who do you relate to in Puberty Blues?

Puberty Blues is a story about a nation growing up.  It tells the story of two girls, Debbie and Sue; theirinnocence lost and experience gained against the backdrop of Australia in the seventies.

Based on the iconic novel Puberty Blues by Kathy Lette and Gabrielle Carey, the series will move beyond the original pages and explore the (mis) adventures of these young girls, their families and friends in a more naïve time in Australia’s history.

8:30pm Wednesdays, on Ten.         

Puberty Blues

This post is sponsored by Ten. Comments on this post are just for this post. If you want to talk about the IDEA of sponsored posts or the choice of advertisers please click here. We will be reading all those comments too for feedback.

Who’s your favourite character in Puberty Blues? Who do you relate to? 

View more posts on:

Comments

Comment Guidelines : Imagine you’re at a dinner party. Different opinions are welcome but keep it respectful or the host will show you the door. We have zero tolerance for any abuse of our writers, our editorial team or other commenters. So if you’re rude, mean-spirited, snarky, aggressive, defamatory or bitchy, your comment will be deleted (so will any replies to the original comment – so don’t bother arguing with rude people, instead just hit the ‘alert moderator’ button).
And if you’re offensive, you’ll be blacklisted and all your comments will go directly to spam. Remember what Fonzie was like? Cool. That’s how we’re going to be – cool. Have fun and thanks for adding to the conversation…

Use your profile to comment: Or, comment as a guest:
(Max file size is 150kb & jpeg's only - if you need help resizing go here »)

104 Comments so far

  1. Kat Abello-Jones

    This looks liike it could be quite a good series to enjoy and reminisc…HOWEVER,,,.as happens with many new series, the consistent advertising of the show before it has even aired makes you dam sick of it before it begins, NOW I DONT CARE TO WATCH IT BECAUSE THE ADS HAVE MADE ME SOOO OVER IT !!,,,.. Bad marketing channel TEN an Eleven !!..thanks a lot for spoiling a good show for me !

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  2. Anon

    I relate to Gary the most. My parents were exactly the same,and I also tried to numb the pain. I am female and the same age as Kathy & Gabby.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  3. Dan

    As 50, male, American and an avid TV viewer, we were like this too back then.
    Puberty Blues is high quality TV no matter where it was made. Sometimes you guys are a little harsh in your criticism of Australian produced shows, so I’m glad this one seems to be enjoyed by most. I hope they’ll be able to see this at home sometimes.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  4. Elah

    I relate to more people on PB than I do on The Shire!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  5. Faybian

    I was also like Debbie and Sue. Desperate to be accepted by the “cool” group. Like them, I got there, but for me led to a lot of trouble in my late teenage years. This of course, meant I had to work twice as hard as I otherwise might have to claw my way back into living a fairly normal middle class life.
    Not something I would recommend to anyone, least of all my own kids.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  6. silverlady

    I am a huge fan of Australian drama. I really enjoyed the first couple of episodes. I was a teenager in the late 70s in Ireland. I went to an all girls Catholic school and my teenage years were alot more innocent. My parents were nothing like the parents here LOL my God. I had alot of freedom but stayed out of trouble. The cool girls were the ones who smoked and sat at the back of the bus a few of them fell pregnant and had a few had to leave school early. I hope things have changed for my daughter in a few years. I have just downloaded the book.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  7. Meg

    The beach scene was so disturbing that it took me a while to even realize what was happening.
    The nostalgia aspect is great & has been certainly played on in the marketing of the series. However, thus far, this is a sugar coated depiction of the book. Still very good viewing!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  8. lady finger

    I was a bit of a dork in school but I was tolerated by the cool crowd because I was athletic and had a decent looking brother.

    I felt safe in my little group as we were smart, quirky and liked to support each other instead of try to be popular.
    Funny how it works out. my group have gone onto being relatively happy, productive and well adjusted adults.
    A lot of the popular ones ended up in a viscious cycle of night clubbing, drugs, sleeping around and then getting to an age where this stuff no longer cool and then being stuck in toxic relationships and ongoing issues.
    My message to teenagers is being popular in high school does not mean you will end up being happy.
    Be true to yourself, treat others with respect, work hard and surround yourself with genuine people and this will be far more rewarding than having some deadbeat want to tit you off and fake friends

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  9. Anonymous

    I related to Debbie, getting more attention from the popular group after ending up in the principals office, happened to me at about the same age as the girls are meant to be!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  10. sammonb

    I’m only 22 but relate so much to both Debbie and Sue, when I was 15 my mum made me read the book and it definetly put me off drugs for life seeing as it was based on a true story and how horrible many of the characters lifes turned out to be…this book should be on school reading lists..would never happen especially not at the catholic school that I went to..

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  11. Ladybug

    Loving watching it, it is filmed at my old High School and that was my old uniform!!! Love seeing the local sights throughout too…. But i cant say I identify with any one particular character. Maybe most like Sue!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  12. Laws for Clouds

    I seem to be alone in this, but I am so bored by this series. I re-read the book in anticipation but this makes me think of Neighbours set in the 70s.

    I know there is much to come so I’ll be sticking it out, but I’m not surprised to hear viewers are down already.

    I do like that they say ‘going round with’ someone. When I was a teen 15 years ago it was ‘go out with’ which was stupid because there was no where to go!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Anonymous

      I’m pretty bored with it, too. I’m mainly watching for the actor who plays Debbie and Dot on Miss Fisher.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  13. Kait

    I’m only in my early 20s and puberty blues reminds me of high school. We’d hitch our skirts up so the waistband was under or boobs and the shorter the better. I’d spend hours on the landline phone to best friends and once to a boy I was “going round with”. My friends and I would walk all over town with nothing to do looking for boys to giggle over or talk to. Was my home town the only one stuck in the past?

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Anonymous

      I’m a bit older than you, in my late twenties, but my town was just like it, too. Except it was rural Victoria and had a river instead of the surfing, ocean, etc.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • Kait

        Well I lived in rural WA we had quite a lot of surfing. I luckily never got into a hair pulling match on the bus with the most popular girl though, I probably would have just curled into a ball and cried!

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
      • RoxyRoller

        yup like my town, my time too- sounds like Swan Hill

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
  14. megsy10_0

    Am loving this series – and not just the story and the acting, but the sets, the clothing, the music. I love it all.

    I feel that Puberty Blues is an important text for Australian teenagers and it is fantastic to see it re-done so well for the benefit of todays teens. John Edwards and Southern Star can always be relied on to tell a story well. Its a cautionary tale, one that shows how far we’ve come – or not. We need more of Australian stories like these on our tis.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  15. Nena

    I think the only character I relate to at the moment was the daggy Frida, the girl in the toilets the ‘cool’ girls told to rack off.
    That would have been me!
    Was amazing to hear the phrase ‘titted off’ dredged up. The other one I remember from school socials was ‘did he finger you?’ Ewww

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • gypsy

      Oh yes!! I was so waiting for her to be umm.. “fingered”.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Nat

      I remember ‘fingered’, ‘go with”, “moll”, but never heard of “tittied off”, must be a Sydney thing.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • The Wayback Machine

        Titting off was a term used during the 1970′s by ill advised male teenagers often from the surfing fraternity who believed that you could bring a girl to orgasm by playing with their tits…as a teenage girl at the time all you could do laugh at the dickheads who believed it, similarly there was also one where if a boy rubbed the girl in the small of her back for long enough she would also have an orgasm. This usually resulted in a very sore and grazed spine

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
  16. Loulee

    What about the way Debbie and Sue wandered from one house to the other – basically roaming the streets for hours on end – and no one was bothered about it. I used to do the same. Walk to a friend’s house. Walk to the beach. Hang out. Check out the boys. Go buy some hot chips and a milkshake. Hang out a bit more. Walk back to my friend’s house. And eventually head home in time for dinner. At our beach the boys didn’t talk to the girls at all. Even if you were “going with” someone you didn’t hang around with the boys. They just went surfing and did their own thing. You’d only come together in the dark of night at a party. Or if the surf was flat behind the surf house if you were lucky. It was pretty dysfunctional.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • J.K

      All that walking so no one was overweight. I lived like that too.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  17. gypsy

    It’s all the little things that are so nostalgic for me. The shorter the skirt the cooler you were. I remember “rolling up” my skirt so I could look cool. At sitting on the little stool by the phone talking to a friend that I’d seen all day at school. The language is spot on “far out” and “how embarrassing”. Loving the relationship between Debbie and her little brother. Sadly, the relationship between the Hennessey parents reminds me a little of my own parents marriage.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • katehunter

      Yesss. All that. The cool (and developed) girls in my class would fire up the Pfaff and run in their skirts to make them tighter – also their blouses so the top buttons ‘wouldn’t do up, Sister.’ (Catholic school)

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Ladybug

      Ha ha Gypsy! I used to do that too. Mum would wonder why the waistband of my skirt was always so wrinkled…….

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  18. La Petite Chou

    As I was saying on twitter last night, I was in Year 10 in 1977. Watching Puberty Blues has been a trip down memory lane, but it’s certainly not a series of warm memories that’s for sure.

    For those of you who are wishing that you could have been a teenager 30 years ago, it wasn’t exactly a simpler or more carefree time.

    I read Puberty Blues the year it was released, somewhere around the end of year 10, beginning of Year 11, and realised with mounting horror that this was a bleak and bald view of the world – it was a cautionary tale, not a rosey view of innocent life in the suburbs. It scared the shit out of me, that life was like that and I was one of them. And by that I mean uninformed, clueless, gauche, with unreliable friends, in waaaay too deep, and really not grown up at all.

    Make no mistake, this was a story about life in a backwards-looking community as a teenage girl and it’s as frightening, misogynistic, violent and as shaming as anything written since. It’s also funny and derogatory and honestly written and that was part of the great charm when it was released.

    So – those of you watching may well laugh out loud until the story turns a sudden corner and leaves you gasping. And when that happens, let’s come back to this discussion, because as a now-50 year old with an 18 year old daughter, what most interests me is how, if anything, life has changed for our young women,

    I sincerely hope life is better since then.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Loulee

      Thanks for summing it up so perfectly La Petite Chou. I totally agree with you. I was in Year 8 in 1977 so I completely understand.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • katehunter

      You got that right La Petit Chou. I’ve seen the next few eps.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Daisy

      A great comment! I was a teenager in the 70′s and lived in the area, going to Cronulla, shopping at Miranda Fair etc. I couldn’t read the book when it first came out as, having seen interviews with the authors, I knew exactly the point they were making and I cringed at the truth of it. You are right, it was a cautionary tale. Although I did not, I had friends who were having sex at 14 and our whole social lives revolved around the beach and parties. I was lucky to come from an enlightened, educated and feminist family that helped me avoid some of the darkest situations in the show but I was witnessing it and it rings so true.
      I now have a 19 year old daughter and watched it with her last night. I like to think that things have changed a lot but in some ways they haven’t changed at all and I hope that she will see the message as it was intended too.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  19. Loulee

    Thanks Kate for this lovely piece about Puberty Blues. Just this morning my girlfriend and I were having coffee and talking about last night’s episode. I agreed with her when she said that reading the book years ago she found it sad and a bit depressing. I really related to the book – the highs and lows.

    Being a failed surfie chick myself and having lived through a “puberty blues” of my own, I can’t say I have happy memories of the late 70s surfie culture. There were some good bits but the treatment of girls by teenage boys and young men was appalling.

    I love Claudia Karvan and her Judy Vickers is fabulous. I agree about poor old Gary’s mum. She’s fascinating but it will all end in tears no doubt.

    My kids and I are also loving the little brother, David. Hilarious!

    Can’t wait for next week’s episode.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  20. Anonymous

    I never was interested in getting into the cool group. I had a chance and was expected to do things I thought were very ‘uncool’. The dichotomy baffled me, so I went and hung with some people (aka nerds :) ) who accepted me the way I was. I never looked back.

    But I can still see so much of my teenage years in this show. Every time I hear the word ‘mole’ I laugh out loud,.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  21. katehunter

    One other thing that struck me last night was how the parents were so busy with their own social lives – their kids’ social lives were secondary – almost ignored. I remember being bored stupid in BEER GARDENS while my parents drank, smoked and talked with their friends – like Sue had to do at the tennis club. It seems the tables have turned – now I spend long afternoons being bored stupid at my kids’ activities.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • deborah

      Whenever my mum has a dig about how I should be prioritising time with my kids I remember the endless coffee-and-cigarette sessions she and her friends indulged in while we kids ‘went off and played somewhere’ (no-one seemed to care overly much ‘where’ we went). And the drunken dinner parties! Hoots of laughter coming from the dining room till midnight and beyond, Neil Diamond singing ‘Sweet Caroline’ at full bore…

      I also remember my parents running a mile from anything suffixed with ‘game’ (board game, card game, pool game…), even on family holidays.

      And they NEVER stayed and watched while we did after school activities (gymnastics, sport etc) – it was drop and run every time. I’m not even sure they came to speech night until I was in the later years of high school.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • Em

        Oh god. Sweet Caroline ;) )))

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
        • katehunter

          ‘Crunchy Granola Suite’ at our place.

          GD Star Rating
          loading...
          • Kirri

            Segio Mendez and Brazil 65… When that went on the record player we knew it was adult dinner party time and we’d soon be hustled off to bed after we’d finished our dinner of fish fingers in the kitchen!

            GD Star Rating
            loading...
        • deborah

          “Good times never seemed so good…”! It’s quite the generational anthem isn’t it?

          GD Star Rating
          loading...
      • Faybian

        “Hot August Night” amiright??
        I still know that album, really, really well. “Rumours” by fleetwood Mac also came out about then. I know that one really well too
        My mother was considered a bit of a control freak at the time, but when she was socializing day or night, it was expected that we kids would disappear. They also had a lot of “interesting” parties. I’ve seen some of the photos and thought about asking about them…..and then thought better of it.
        They did a lot of progressive dinners too. Remember them?
        Kids parties were very much a drop and run affair too. It stayed that way until the late nineties.

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
    • KAteateight

      My husband and I were talking about this recently – that when we were small we were always sent off to play, or sat at separate tables for kids, but these days it seems our kids are so intertwined in our lives.

      We agreed that our parents weren’t as involved in our lives as we are in our kids lives, and on top of that – we werent sure that was a problem! We used to love having our own time, away from the grownups.

      Used to be that there was a group of ‘adults’ and ‘children’, but at the wedding I went to, the families were silo-ed (is that a word), so that the parents played with and entertained their own kids, and the kids didn’t really group together at all.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • katehunter

        That wedding sounds nightmarish – for the parents AND kids. I don’t go to social events to hang out with my own family. I can do that at home.

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
    • Anonymous

      Not sure if we are doing our kids a service these days with how overly interested and protective we are, but I can’t imagine having a bunch of friends over for drunken strip poker while my young child is in the house, either. Where’s the middle ground I wonder?

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • Suzie

        I loved that he’s being all strict “You know I don’t like you walking home alone, it’s not safe” while standing there nearly naked.

        My mother would have DIED if someone did the strip poker around her.

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
    • Daisy

      So, so true, Kate!

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  22. helen19

    I really relate to the pecking order described by seat choice on the bus. The back seat was where the coolest and toughest reigned- they were attractive and intimidating. Even if you sat 3/4 of the way back, it was a very bold move. My big brother wouldn’t allow me to sit beyond the half-way mark. Having a little sister there would have cramped his style with the molls at the back of the bus. He was good looking and often had girls sitting on his lap for the entire ride. Ahem!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Haven Maven

      I was a back seat ‘hev’….lol

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Faybian

      I don’t think the bus seat pecking order has changed that much.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  23. Ros

    I was 5 and living on a farm when puberty blues was written, so don’t really get nostalgic watching it.
    I can’t say I understand the characters either. The sole driving force behind everything they do is to be accepted by the “cool group”. It saddens me to think that so many teens feel like this – and judging by the comments most viewers identify with this. It actually confuses me a bit too – she had a smart Mum, why wasn’t she more ambitious?

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Anon

      Errmmmm because she’s fourteen?

      All I can say is watch the whole thing – or read the book. It’s not all about being accepted by the cool group. It’s about young girls working out that being accepted by the cool group isn’t really all its cracked up to be.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • Ros

        Yep, picking up on that (have to say I’m kind of relieved) from comments from La Petite Chous and others that frame it as a cautionary tale. I had heard the book was iconic, shocking and a true story (obviously never read it) So I was really not understanding the warm and fuzzy tone of many of those reminiscing “we were just like that – good times” When I thought what was happening was kind of alarming

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
        • Anon

          I think little bits of it happened to all of us, the first kiss, our first time, the music, the clothes…being in a curvy body with a child’s brain (or at least that was me) – that’s what we are relating to. Being over forty, raising two girls of my own – I think it’s only natural that we are all a little nostalgic for our youth. Yeah, no doubt there were bad times, but overall I think most of us could say our childhoods were nice places to be … And no doubt when I am a grandmother I’ll be wistful about this time in my life and will forget the sleepless nights, the post natal depression.

          GD Star Rating
          loading...
  24. K

    I am loving the show. It is single- handedly making me nostalgic for my childhood (the girls of the book went to my primary school) an melancholic at the same time. It is achingly sad what was aspired to by such bright gorgeous girls. My friends and I managed to skip the bad bits but I’m glad I moved away! The parents are hilarious and so well acted. I don’t think things have changed too much – except for the non-existence of phone chairs now!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  25. ellajean

    I love it but all I can think when watching it is how will my girls cope with the teenage years and how will I cope …I know I wont be cool …
    I remember writing test answers on my legs like the girls ..although I wonder if todays male teachers would be to scared of being accused of checking out the girls legs to say anything …

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • savannahofaus

      I was thinking during that scene that there is no way in hell that any teacher, male or female, would ask their students to lift their skirt up these days!

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Haven Maven

      *This* was how I topped Year 9 biology!

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  26. Yeah!

    I’m really enjoying the show, but I don’t personally relate to any of the characters.

    I think Debbie and Sue’s desperation to infiltrate the so-called cool group is fun to watch but, in real life, not a good way to go about having a happy teen/high school experience.

    I was born in the late-70s and was a teenager in the early 90s. I had absolutely no interest in being part of any group if it required me to compromise my dignity, such as smoking, getting into trouble at school, sucking up to bitchy girls and letting feral boys have their way with me with absolutely no consideration for my feelings or pleasure. Looking back, I don’t regret not making more of an effort to be ‘cool’. I had friends, I was a good student, I played sports, I performed in plays and I had lovely boyfriends. It was good enough for me!

    My parents weren’t like any of the parents in the show. They were together, happy and pretty cool. I was lucky.

    I didn’t have a little brother, but if I did, David would be an awesome little brother to have! The actor who plays him is absolutely sensational. Loving it!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Ros

      Yeah! I agree. I can look back on my highschool years as a girly swat and think I made some pretty good choices. No regrets for not trying to be cooler.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • B.B.

      I agree! I was in high school at the time and was a sweet girl who turned into a very uncool rebel nerd, and I wore glasses, had zero athletic ability and was funny looking. I had friends but no close ones, and no boys came anywhere near me and the one boy I liked turned out to be gay (though no one knew at the time…to be honest that sort of thing wasn’t on my radar).

      i say “rebel nerd” because I decided very early on that was going to be my identity. i wasn’t a pretty, popular sporty girl so rather try to be a pale shade of that, I’d be the biggest, nerdiest, most celibate girly swat that ever there was. And dammit, I succeeded. I was almost badass in the way I embraced my nerdiness.

      There were girls who were unpopular for different reasons who did try to be cool, usually through sex, much like Freida from puberty Blues. I used to hear stories (they tried to shock me because i was such a ‘straight’) and they made me feel sick. Never in a MILLION YEARS would i have traded sex for popularity. I am amazed at how strong I was.

      The popular girls were quite mean for a while but i think they found my lack of interest in them fascinating. They invited me to sit with them once and I very nonchalantly told them i was too busy. Its the closest i ever came to actively trying to be cool!

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  27. anna84

    Haven’t watched it yet because I share with housemates and we’ve only got one TV between all of us. BOTH weeks it’s been on they’ve been playing xbox :(
    Reading this has inspired me to download the first episode RIGHT NOW! Can’t wait, I loved the book as a teen! x

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  28. abbi

    After seeing puberty blues, I wish I was born about thirty years earlier, so unfair!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Yeah!

      Why?!

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • abbi

        It just seems like more of an innocent time! They’re having a sneaky fag, whereas kids when I was growing up, kids were drinking bottles of spirits and taking ecstasy! Probably helps that the show is amazing though :)

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
        • Yeah!

          Nostalgia does that to you… makes you feel as though the past was better. In the case of the 70s and Puberty Blues, I definitely don’t think it was. Did you see the beach scene? Not so innocent!

          GD Star Rating
          loading...
        • Anonymous

          Not sure about more innocent….girl looking very uncomfortable having sex, in the daylight, on the beach, surrounded by the gang last night. Ugh. Being pressured to ‘put out’ feels the same no matter what generation you belong to I suspect…not nostalgic about that at all.

          GD Star Rating
          loading...
        • B.B.

          I take it you haven’t read the book.

          It gets a lot less innocent as the story goes on.

          What disgusting is that the characters were 13 in the book – and having sex with 18 year old males. I think they’ve aged the girls up a few years in the show, and the boys down a few years.

          GD Star Rating
          loading...
          • Suzie

            Yeah, it’s got a lot more to go – I remember being quite disturbed reading it.

            GD Star Rating
            loading...
    • Jay

      Really? The two sexual assaults that took place in public situations while everyone ignored them didn’t put you off?

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  29. Anon

    As a teenager in the 70′s I can relate to most of the show, however, we never were kissy and cuddly with our best girlfriends….I think that is very new phenomena…any girl who greeted a friend with a cuddle or kiss would have been immediately labeled a ‘leso’ in my Sydney school!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Nat

      I agree, the open affection showed by kids today
      was definitely not a 70′s thing.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  30. KT

    Oh Debbie and Sue! Some of their stuff is straight out of my pages.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  31. Lou16

    Am loving this show! Sadly probably relate to Judy Vickers now that I’m a mum myself, loving how the show portrays the parents relationships and complications. I was a teenager in the 80s and don’t think much had changed, that whole trying to fit in and friends being everything. Loved the dad Martin comparing sex to going to the toilet which just went pear shaped as an explanation! Is it wrong how sexy Rodger Corsair is looking as a 70s dude??

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Anonymous

      Not wrong on the Corser comment. Yummy.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Lizi

      Urghhh! That moustache. He was sooo much cuter in Rush (sigh).

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  32. Mia

    Claudia Karvan is like my mum – sensible feminist.

    But what I really relate to is the way the friendship between Debbie and Sue is depicted. That intensity and girlishness and borderline hilarity/hysteria ALL THE TIME.

    Keeps getting better, this show.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  33. Lisa

    I had forgotten the term “titting off”, what a crack up! I also remember giving my little sister cigarettes so that she wouldn’t dob on me when she caught me smoking… I kind of felt like Sue last night as I had the popular best friend and I used to watch her with a mix of jealousy and happiness as she pashed all the hot boys. I am just loving the complexity of all the characters, cannot wait for next week!

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • Mia

      Yes! Titting off!

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • CG

      YES! I was just going to write the same thing! And ‘going with’ and ‘you’re dropped.’ it’s like a time capsule. I’m loving it.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • abbi

      What on earth is titting off?

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • becsparrow

        Kathy Lette went on Twitter last night to explain it (because I’d NEVER heard that expression before).

        It means having your breasts fondled!

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
        • Dana

          THANK YOU Bec!!

          I had no idea what ‘titted off’ meant either – you have helped clear up a VERY interesting conversation between my hubby and I after seeing it on last night’s ep! :)

          GD Star Rating
          loading...
        • LisaMc

          In my group of friends , and maybe we were just tarts, but it meant sucking your boobs (cannot believe I just typed that, I am blushing) I remember thinking that I would NEVER let a guy do that to me…

          GD Star Rating
          loading...
    • Loulee

      Oh yes I died when I heard that he had “titted me off” from Sue. Hadn’t heard that one for years. About 35 years actually.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • Haven Maven

        One of my 30-ish mates posted on fb last night ‘wtf is titted off’. I couldn’t answer for laughing so hard.

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
  34. vivacious

    PB makes me feel incredibly lucky and amazed by my oh so innocent early teen years in the early 90′s. Honestly at 13 I still had a full collection of My Little Pony. Maybe the fact that I was at an all girls school, none of my rather daggy friends had brothers and there was no way the cool kids were ever going to look at us. I also had giant glasses, a huge bushy wild mane of hair, braces and puppy fat. I was never going to be cool.

    But I do identify with all the teenage bitchiness. A couple of times when things happened and the boys in the room were amazed at the girls behaviour and attitudes to each other, my Mum, sister and I had to inform them it was all quite accurate, that is teenage girls.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  35. Sarah

    I’m a bit young to relate to the time, but it’s a serious trip to see my high school on telly! It was filmed at Caringbah High, so between that and memories of smoking cones in a mates car at Greenhills is a trip down memory lane for this mid-20s chick…

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  36. becsparrow

    I don’t recognise myself too much yet in PB (that said I loooooove it!). In high school I was one of those people who was friends with all the groups and tended to float between them: the cool group, the choir kids, the drama gang etc etc

    I think all teenage girls are desperate to be accepted but I wasn’t quite as obsessed as Debbie and Sue are (stalking the cool group at every turn!).
    I think I was probably too busy perming my hair and methodically taping Rick Dees Top 40 and trying to tape The Bangles’ songs off the radio. That said, I spent an inordinate amount of time plotting ways to make Brendan Windsor fall in love with me.

    Strategy 1: work out his timetable and make sure I am casually strolling past his locker at key times during the week. Flicking my perm and looking enigmatic (hard to do with a perm ….)

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  37. Lizi

    Who’d have thought demure Dot from Miss Fisher would wind up here? I didn’t see the first ep of this, and can’t find it on Ten’s site – any hints where I should be looking?

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • B

      Here you go! http://ten.com.au/video-player.htm?movideo_p=48039

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Suzie

      And how awesome an actor is she?

      Fantastic. She’ll go very far, I think.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Bird

      I can’t believe it either. Her roles are so different, aren’t they? I love the other show too..

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Loulee

      Oh yes DOT! I love Dot. Ashleigh Cummings is an incredible young talent. Her nerdy Robyn in Tomorrow When the War Began is also great. Love her.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
  38. Anonymous

    I love the show and it brings back a lot of memories. The pash in front of a cheering crowd – not so much romance as proof that you’re cool enough to be there.

    Last night invoked some not so good memories and it took me quite a while to get to sleep. For someone who lost their virginity to date rape, that beach scene was WAY too close to home.

    But it’s so real .. I still love the show. Definitely a fictional version of exactly where I came from.

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • B

      I’m so sorry you had to experience that.

      The beach scene really upset me too. It made me feel like crying.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Yeah!

      Wasn’t that scene icky! I had a beautiful first time, but that scene definitely churned my stomach.

      So sorry to hear about how you lost your virginity.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
    • Anonymous

      Thanks, guys. Yeah, certainly wasn’t the best way .. but hey, I was also the girl through Years 11 & 12 who had the stable relationship with my 6’6″ hot, blonde boyfriend (who was in the same year) and got to learn through loving and trusting experimentation, so my early experiences weren’t all bad!

      Seeing a scene like that though – and also the one in The Accused – just reminds me how easily sex can get out of control when you’re young and inexperienced and before you know it, someone you know has taken everything too far .. and you’re left with all the consequences and confusion. I hope younger people watching last night were shocked at how easily that could happen.

      GD Star Rating
      loading...
      • Yeah!

        Heh heh. I had a tall, hot, blonde boyfriend when I was a teenager, too. :-) He was SO sweet. He was a hopeless romantic (still is – I see him once in a while) and was extremely focused on my pleasure in the bedroom. What a lovely first person to get naked with!

        The Accused – also a painful film for me to watch, even though nothing like that’s ever happened to me. And I can’t watch the parking lot scene in Thelma & Louise. Have to cover my eyes (and ears).

        GD Star Rating
        loading...
  39. sparkie

    havent watched it yet. Living through it was bad enough. Remember the film being made , was offered a job on the crew

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
  40. Mum of 2

    I watched enough last night to be reminded of my first real kiss. I had liked a guy for months and then at the disco got word that it was likely to happen that night. There was no romantic peck moving in for more, like you would expect (well I did anyway!) of ‘young love’ – it was just straight to that totally unromantic full on ‘pash’ without any prelude that the girl got last night. Nothing romantic there whatsoever. I think I had rose-coloured-glasses’d that memory though, because I didn’t quite remember it that badly until I watched that bit of the show last night. i can see a lot of similarities between this show and the town that I spent a couple of years in in high school (and this was late 80s).

    GD Star Rating
    loading...
    • S

      Oh god, and the tongue. The tongue.

      I thought ‘Sweet Jesus, that is the most revolting thing I’ve ever done in my life’.

      I did get better at it. And now actually quite enjoy a good pash :)

      GD Star Rating
      loading...

So, we have $1000 to give away... oh, would you be interested? Well step right this way.

To go in the draw to win, just LIKE us on Facebook, enter your email address and tell us in 25 words or less why you love reading Mamamia.

Close this popup



Full Terms & Conditions