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Tearjerkers 380x323 What movie makes you cry?

Think Titanic, A Walk to Remember, Terms of Endearment, Beaches and P.S I Love You. The movies that have you reaching for the tissues and crying for days.

Research from the US is suggesting watching these tearjerker movies – where inevitably someone dies, a relationship breaks up or a ship sinks – leaves people feeling warm and fuzzy – despite some possible mascara tears .

This from the Huffington Post

New research has found that tragic films can actually make us feel happier.  The Findings, published in the journal Communication Research, suggest that those tearjerkers have a way of bringing our attention to important relationships in our lives.

“Tragic stories often focus on themes of eternal love, and this leads viewers to think about their loved ones and count their blessings,” Silvia Knobloch-Westerwick, associate professor of communication at Ohio State University and lead author on the study, said in a statement.

The more people were focused on loved ones during the movie, the happier they felt afterward — on the other hand, those who focused more on themselves (saying things like “My life isn’t as bad as the character in this movie) didn’t experience the same uptick.

The researchers tested 370 college students by sitting them down to watch the 2007 tearjerker classic, Atonement (the story of two ill-fated lovers and the war). The students were asked to fill out a survey on their levels of happiness before and after the film.

The sadder they felt, the more likely they were to think about their own relationships, which made them happier about their lives. And overall, the students came out smiling.

So next time you’re in the mood for a pick-me-up, why not try one of these tearjerker classics?

A Walk to Remember

How do you feel after you sit down to watch a sad movie? Do you ever wonder why you watch them in the first place? Are there any movies that are guaranteed to have you reaching for the tissues?

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  1. LouEm

    Without fail, everytime I see Marley & Me I cry… wait no I actually sob! The only movie that can make me cry over and over no matter how much I see it. I just love my puppies so much, so when I see it I think of them.

    I also get a little teary everytime I watch cast away when Wilson is floating off into the distance. How can a soccer ball make someone cry!!

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  2. Nikki

    For sure the Note book, this movie will have me crying as though someone love has just died.

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  3. Christine

    I’m a complete tearjerker. I even cry watching comedies (especially TV show comedies) such as “Two Guys and a Girl” (90′s sitcom). Embarrassing.

    Cried watching the following movies:
    - Adam
    - Love Actually
    - The Help
    - Spiderman 3 (I’m not too sure why…)
    - The Rugrats Movie (when Tommy thought his parents didn’t love him anymore!)
    - The Notebook
    - PS I Love You
    - Blue Valentine (was so depressed after that!)

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  4. Ree2

    Misunderstood (1984).

    I started gently weeping with the opening credits. At the half way point I had shifted to loud sobbing and the couch was wet. And with the closing credits I was a puddle. Enjoyed it immensely.

    And remember the old Telstra ads? Where people would ring home? Had me in tears every time.

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  5. simone

    Big Fish with Ewan McGregor. Cried like a baby at the end. Amazing film!

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  6. MelB

    Post kids…absolutely everything!

    I watched the Descendents recently and bawled the end where George’s character kissed his comatose wife goodbye.
    The Help – where Skeeter’s Mum tells Constantine to leave and never come back.
    Legends of the Fall – the whole thing
    Steel Magnolias
    Titanic – at the time no, but now yes
    Anything about war, I just can’t watch that genre anymore. Can’t do violence especially to children.
    I just flat out avoid anything like My Sister’s Keeper, the Notebook etc.

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  7. Kate

    Lorenzo’s Oil – saddest movie I have ever seen

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  8. Kez

    Have never cried so much as I did in ‘The Boy with the Striped Pyjamas’

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  9. tashab

    The Vow. Has anyone seen it yet? I was still bawling for an hour afterwards! Haven’t had a good cry like that in ages. Definitely recommend it!

    And I’ll admit that I cry in the Biggest Loser quite alot!!

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  10. Tiffins

    Dead Poets Society. Enough said

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  11. Donna S

    Map of the Human Heart. It got both me and my normally non-soppy male flatmate for completely different reasons.

    But I admit that I will cry at most movies. Happily.

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  12. Lauren

    I know its not a movie, but when Mel died in Packed to the rafters i was completely bawling my eyes out. Never have i been so upset in a show haha!

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  13. Jemma

    The First Grader. Seriously.. go to your DVD store and RENT IT NOW! It’s a new release that hasn’t gotten enough attention. A true and powerful story, had me howling loudly (a first for me in a film). I cried even in the trailer!

    http://www.imdb.com/video/screenplay/vi889363737/

    I ALWAYS cry with Blair and Chuck in Gossip Girl. (I hope I haven’t lost credibility with you there!)

    I don’t know why.. but I bawl my eyes out in The Rebound.
    It’s so silly and for some reason it really hits me.
    I think it may be the fact that when the main characters fight.. they are BOTH RIGHT. Too often in movies I easily side with one character’s side. But this film I just can’t.
    By the last scene I’m bawling.

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  14. Debbie

    I bawled my eyes out at the end of Marley and Me. I never cry in movies, so I think it speaks volumes that it was dog that made me cry.

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  15. Ronnie

    I often feel there is something wrong with me when watching sad films because it takes a LOT for me to squeeze out even a few tears. Films recommended to me by friends as guaranteed tearjerkers like My Sister’s Keeper, The Notebook, A walk to remember, Million Dollar Baby, PS I love you, One Day ,even Toy Story 3 (that apparently had grown men weeping) hard as I tried – no tears surfaced.

    And I just can’t explain it to myself. It’s not like I’ve been through any suffering or death myself so a hardened heart is definitely not the cause. Maybe its because I didn’t actually get sucked into these stories enough to feel deep emotion. Actually, now that I think about it, I didn’t really enjoy any of the film I mentioned above (except The Notebook and Toy Story 3 and Million Dollar Baby, all three of which I loved…and now I’m confused again!!). Anyone out there the same as me and can explain it to me??

    When a rare film or book does make me cry though, its uncontrollable, can’t see beyond my tears bawling – which is what happened with:
    - The Lion King
    - All 3 Lord of the Rings. Damn you Peter Jackson!
    - Titanic
    - Finding Nemo. What???

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    • Christine

      I cried watching the first 5 minutes of Finding Nemo- I was so shocked to see the mum died!

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  16. Mimi

    Time Travellers Wife
    Marley and Me
    Bambi
    One Day
    A Walk to Remember
    Titanic – didnt cry this time around with the 3D movie…maybe as i knew what was coming….

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  17. Fruit Loop

    My Girl !
    Get me every time !
    ‘he can see with out his glasses’…. Already starting to tear up.

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    • Me too

      Aw, I forgot about that :(

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  18. Le Petite Chou

    Out of Africa. The graveside eulogy – “He was not ours. He was not mine”.

    It took me 20 minutes to compose myself before I could leave the cinema and still makes me bawl.

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  19. Haven Maven

    My life as a House.
    St Elmo’s Fire – the scene when Jules is in her house after everything has been repossessed and the windows are wide open.
    The Notebook. Every. Single TIme.
    The Wedding Singer
    Kramer vs Kramer – my mother took me to see it when my parents were splitting up. WTF was she thinking.
    Four Weddings and a Funeral
    Notting Hil ‘I’m just a girl…’
    The Help – just the other night. Sobbed!
    Stand by Me
    Beaches – was mine and my old bestie’s fave movie – I was Bette of course
    My Sister’s Keeper. Uber weepie.
    Mr Holland’s Opus

    *sighs* I’m such a hard core romantic…

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    • Haven Maven

      Oh and who can forget PS I love you!

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  20. Caro

    Old movies: Random harvest and Waterloo Bridge. Unbearable.
    What the hell are Armageddon and Pearl Harbour doing in that list?

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    • mamaruns

      Armaggeddon and Pearl Harbour – Perhaps because tears of frustration/boredom are shed? ;-)

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  21. rudyroo

    oh just thought of another. Made in the eighties? perhaps.
    The movie with Mark Harmon in it as a single father who fights to keep his children. Set maybe in the 40′s or 50′s. Can anyone remember the name?
    Gawd I bawled in that, as did half the class or more, boys and girls, as we watched it at school. Of course we were all doing the silent pretending-not-to-cry sob.
    What was that movie? It was incredibly eye opening.

    Oh, and what about when Goose dies in Top GUn? Tell me you dídn’t sob at that!

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  22. JamandCream

    I am Sam.Within the first minute I had tears streaming down my face.

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  23. Rach

    The first movie I ever cried in was Hilary and Jackie (about the cellist Jacqueline DuPre). My aunt and uncle, classical music buffs, had taken me to see it. I was a little shocked at myself, I was about 17, and had certainly never been a crier about anything, let alone movies. Since then, depending on my mood, anything with a love-then death/parting theme, especially if it seems so unjust, will have me in floods.

    One that gets me every time is, embarrassingly, Save the Last Dance. The scene where she breaks down after seeing the ballet about how she can’t dance because her mum died.

    I also bawled in The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe, the latest non-animated one, when they attacked Aslan and cut off his fur. Inconsolable. I can’t do animal movies, I cannot bring myself to watch either Marley and Me or Red Dog.

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  24. Sarah

    Also, Hope Floats with Sandra Bullock? AMAZING cry like a baby every time i watch it

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  25. Ella

    Stepmom. “Will you teach dad how to tie my shoes?” …. I could wail just thinking about it.

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  26. Anonymous

    Does anyone remember that episode of McLeod’s Daughters when claire died? When her flippin truck went over the cliff?! And Tesssa saved the baby?!
    And then Claire’s house wouldn’t obey anyone that wasn’t Claire?!

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    • Kate O

      YES! I was in highschool at the time, on the phone to my best friend sobbing!

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    • Lizi

      Lots of crying moments in that show! I loved it when I was working from home and could schedule in some tissue time at 3 every afternoon! :-)

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  27. Kate O

    I cry in pretty much everything, even the Huggies commercial. I remember watching Nights in Rodanthe with my brother a few years ago trying to do the silent cry then my brother asked if I was ok and I just bawled and bawled hysterically. The look on his face was priceless! I just think of it as preparaton for his future wife- he’ll be a good consoler during sad movies!

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    • LouEm

      Yep also guilty doing the silent cry in that movie whilst watching it with my mum. She left to answer the phone, and I just let it all out and sobbed. It was SO SAD!!

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  28. Jen : )

    The time traveler’s wife should be added to the list! I cried really loudly in the cinemas!

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  29. iamevilcupcake

    I cried, no I sobbed, in Transformers 2. And I’m not even joking.

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  30. Mickie

    I’ve cried during most of the mentioned movies, but did anyone else sob during the last 20 minutes or so of LOTR Return of the King?
    When I was pregnant I sobbed at the movies watching the qantas ad (the one with the childrens choir) my partner was gobsmacked lol

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  31. Gina

    Forest Gump. When Forest is talking to Jenny at her Grave. I actually went to the cinema by myself to see the film and sat there with my popcorn and coke and bawled my eyes out.

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    • mamaruns

      Forest Gump also makes me cry. The first time it was just the part you’ve mentioned that moved me to tears in the cinema, but each subsequent viewing makes me cry more. It’s at the point now that I’m on the verge of tears every time Jenny appears on the screen. And Lt Dan…. And I howled at the bit where Jenny threw rocks at her old house, and again where Forest had it pulled down. I’m resigned to the fact that by the time I’m 40, I’ll just cry from beginning to end without a break.

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  32. Lana Elise

    ‘The Notebook’ – in the scenes where Allie is in the home without ‘Duke’ and she looks so frail and cold and frightened. It reminds me of how my Grandfather looked when his dementia was very bad…… has me sobbing like a baby.

    And ‘Marley & Me’. I wasn’t a dog person when I first saw it – still cried my eyes out. But now I have two puppies I cry even more!! We watched it only yesterday and after it finished, I was wiping my eyes with my jumper, sniffling and saying ‘I need to play with my babies’!! Those two movies get me everytime….

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  33. Elle G

    Steel Magnolia. Every single time I sob like a baby through the entire movie. Its unbelievably embarrassing but I LOVE it!!

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  34. Natalia

    I cried through most of “Up” (yes, the kid’s movie), “Click” (yes, the Adam Sandler movie) and Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close (despite it being nowhere near as good as the book).

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    • Nicole

      I also cired in UP…

      like a baby in a ball…

      oh!

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    • Rach

      I also cried in Up, when his wife died…think it was the earliest in a movie I have even cried.

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    • Jodie

      Me too, every time I watch it. My kids always give me a hug.

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  35. Mardon

    Who Will Love My Children? An oldie but so sad….

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  36. Kimberley

    The first time I can remember REALLY crying while watching a movie was during “Looking for Alibrandi”. I’d read and loved the book, I could relate to some of the characters and their stories and I felt invested in them and when Josie finds out about John and then the crying and the scene on the bus with Jacob and U2′s “With or Without You” is playing and, oh dear, now my eyes are watering!
    The odd thing is though, that I still LOVE this movie! It makes me cry like a baby but it makes me feel good. I enjoy the crap out of watching it and still do semi-regularly now in my late 20s.

    As for TV, Grey’s Anatomy season finales get me EVERY year! I’m beginning to think that I only stick with the season for that emotional release that I know is coming at the end that will wreck me for 42 minutes but ultimately make me feel better afterwards.

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    • goose

      I agree on Grey’s Antomy – I cry almost every episode!

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      • Anonymous

        Oh, yes! Looking for Alibrandi. When she reads the letter he left? Sobbing.
        I also prefered the letter in te movie to the book!

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    • Sarah

      When Denny died on GA! i bawled!

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    • Rach

      Yes! Looking for Alibrandi – basically any scene that discussed John’s death made me cry…

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      • Luiz

        I really liked this movie. It was a very young Gerard Butler. The story was good, but sad. He’s supeospdly happily married, then an old girlfriend comes back and wants to spend time with him because she’s dying. I felt sorry for the wife.The movie made me want to go sky diving.

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  37. jat

    The first film to make me sob was Watership Down. I remember being a child and being so confused that a film could have a sad ending.
    Ps I’m not an expert at grammar usage, but should the title of this article be ‘Which movie made you cry?’ rather than ‘What movie made you cry?’.

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  38. Kate R

    Mother and Child. Sobbed so much it actually hurt. But I loved it.

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  39. rudyroo

    Oh and yes, THAT episode in Love My Way.
    I was not expecting it at all!
    Totally wiped me out.

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    • janellec68

      I think I know which ep you mean. A total heartbreaker. Awesome acting to portray such a subject so realistically.

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      • Anonymous

        I still tear up when I think about that ep

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    • Stacey.

      Oh, God, that episode. I was watching it at 11pm alone on a Wednesday night, and I was a sobbing, blubbering mess. It just hit so hard, and was so unexpected, and frighteningly real. They just all seem like real people. Arghhh I am getting emotional just thinking about it :(

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  40. rudyroo

    Beaches. I howled like a banshee at that one. Still do, so I don’t watch it anymore.

    Legends of the Fall. whew. That left me heart wrecked and distraught. So much so there were no tears. I cant bear to watch it. Despite the glorious vision of Brad.

    Steel magnolias. Classic.

    Anything that I watched through the years of IVF and miscarriage. Bawled at anything then.

    Also, Kleenex tissue ads. Those soft little puppies and ducks…sob.

    Oh and the classic Aussie mini series Sword of Honour.
    Remember that? Sobbing! As he drives off. Shes singing. Sob.
    It’s now out of DVD finally!

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  41. ilovewilson

    Castaway! When Wilson falls off the boat, I fall apart.

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    • Gina

      YES!!! Every single time I watch it I cry.

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  42. maybedaisy

    Big Fish. That last scene by the river is the most beautiful, heart-warming thing.

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  43. Natalie

    For me it’s Love Actually every single time

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    • RandomMon

      Me too! It never gets old, even though I could recite half the bits before they say them I still love it. Everyone is fantstic in that film, all the characters are brilliant. Especially love Emma Thompson’s character… and oh when she goes upstairs to have a cry and one little moment by herself when she realises her husband is having an affair and then goes back downstairs like everything is great, oh that gets me everytime. And I love the ‘sex scene, stand in actors’ that fall in love, they’re so cute!

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      • Haven Maven

        THe bit where the guy tells the married girl he loves her on the notecards and she pretends its carol singers at the door.

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        • Natalie

          and the bit where Liam Neeson’s character takes his stepson to the airport to see his one true love………Magic!!

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  44. Melanie

    I usually cry in movies where the main character goes through some type of hardship. Memoirs of a Geisha (2005), Tess of the D’Urbervilles (2008), and My Sister’s Keeper (2009) were the first movies that made me cry.

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  45. Holly

    There aren’t many films that have made me cry but Life is Beautiful is definitely one that did.

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  46. Edie-Louise

    I am Sam

    I’m always a wreck after that film!

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  47. Megs

    Bright Star.

    Always gets me crying. I think it’s a lovely, though tragic, story and beautiful movie.

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  48. amandabailey

    Ditto for What Dreams May Come & most other movies where Robin Williams plays serious roles, his face conveys raw emotion beautifully.

    Actually, I cry at pretty much anything, doesn’t have to be a blockbuster movie, I tear up at commercials and I always have a happy cry when someone wins a big prize on Millionaire Hot Seat & you can see they are really emotional about it.

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  49. Anonymous

    Jaws. When Bruce died I just lost it.

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  50. Sweetness

    I love a good weepy. Every few weeks when I’ve got a night home alone I’ll watch a chick flick, often sad ones. I love them-it’s a bit of a release or cathartic. Maybe it says that I hold in my feelings in real life, although I do have quite an intense job.

    I’ve watched most of the movies mentioned (although do have a few new ideas!) but one movie that always made me cry, from about 10 minutes in was I am Sam. Even before I worked in Special Ed. When the mum gets on the bus… booohoooo…

    Also, not a movie, and I didn’t feel good after this, but there is an absolutely shattering episode in Love My Way. I tear up just thinking about it.

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